Falling in Love With the wrong Man

Ok not sure if I can say Falling in love. But something like that me and my ex of almost 6 years split up back in the begining of March For a while I was like WHATEVER who cares then once he moved out I went through the weird stage of it being odd being alone but quickly got over that. Then the last two times i have been around him my tummy gets butterflies I just want to hold him and I dont know why…..Its like Im falling for him all over again even though im not sure if this is the best decision I mean after all he seems to be afraid of commitment and we are total oppostites on the parenting thing he is all about telling the kids to go to thier room dont get me wrong hes a great dad but he just works so many hours and when he gets home he wants to relaxe and hates having the kids run around i am the type of parent that is big on family time we do arts crafts, cook together and do lots of things together for example last night instead of sending my son to bed when i got home from work at midnight we decided to have a slumber party in the living room we made somores and popcorn and watched a movie till we fell asleep. Little harm done beings it was not a school night the only harm done was we missed church this morning. but he had fun and i got to spend some quality time with him before bed if Larry was still living there things like this would NEVER happen he was very strict about the kids going to bed by 8:30 on the weekdays and 10pm on weekends. I mean I do still have ALOT of feelings for him but i think what I need is a guy who shares the same religious beliefs or at least somewhat similar with me….Larry was anti church so never had anything to do with any of the stuff me and the kids were doing. Closes thing he did that involed church was on day our church offered a FREE car wash so he came for the car wash and got his truck washed…. He didnt even stay and hang out. I also think I need a guy who can has a strong work ethnic but can also come home and have a strong family Ethnic….I realize that Larry had to work to help support us but DANG when U have a family you need to have enough energy for work AND for your Family. I just want a man who will love me for who I am. that shares the same or similar beliefs as i do both religiously and and other ways. Another thing that always bugged me with Larry is we did not mix Romantically either. I am a cuddly romantic girl and dont get me wrong he cuddled me sometimes but for the most part he was anti cuddly. I am the type of girl who believe even parents need date nights. Not every night but once or twice a month. my ideal of the perfect date is a romantic candle lit dinner for two followed by a night on the beach watching the sunset or the stars. NOW I JUST NEED THE PERFECT MAN WHO HAS THE SAME IDEALS…..ARE YOU OUT THERE?????