Wisdom and folly

“Some people take more care to hide their wisdom than their folly.”
~ Jonathan Swift

So finally, for the first time in what feels like a hundred years, I have absolutely no romantic entanglements to deal with. I walked away from the last one with no regrets; in fact, I felt such a huge sense of relief when it was officially done that I skipped down the street, whistling.

OK, not really – but I do feel good about it. It wasn’t right for either of us, especially me, and I’m just tired of banging my head against a wall when it isn’t going to get me anywhere but concussed and bitchy. And being bitchy just takes Too Much Energy for my tastes.

However, I did see That Someone over the weekend. I hung out with my friend Lori (the bar manager where I worked last summer and will probably work part-time this summer), and through the course of running around the North Country, she and I ended up at his cabin along with a few more friends. It was a great weekend; sort of felt like the first few days of camp when I was a kid, reuniting with all my friends from summers before.

We had the bonfire roaring, .38 Special on the radio, lots of talking and laughing. It was truly a great night.

And yeah, he kissed me.

So what?

Different topic, but I just feel the need to express my gratitude that I live in a part of the world where a size 12 is not considered heifer.

And really, that’s about all I got for ya today.

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April 20, 2010

wooooh! (‘Saved by the Bell’ kissing cheering sound)

April 20, 2010

Good to see that you had a good weekend. 🙂

April 20, 2010

No harm in a nice kiss. Nope, none at all.

Oh the midwest, I love it so. Where my size is a normal size.

April 20, 2010

oh la la, “the kiss”. 🙂 nice weekend. @};————–

i hear that. I keep hearing how thin I am…”gettin thinner every time i see you”..and yet, still the same 12/14 as ever

April 20, 2010

Heh. Absolutely no romantic entanglements to deal with. And then there’s a kiss!

April 20, 2010

(Cracking up at Satine and considering moving to the midwest…)

April 20, 2010

Size 12 can be hottttttt! I loves it. Satine’s note made me laugh.

April 21, 2010

Bonfires and .38 Special. It doesn’t get any better than that.

RYN* when it’s time, I am going to waer the SHIT out of those maternity pants. And then for months after the bebe has come out. It’s an easy solution to muffin top!

April 22, 2010

Kissin’s always fun. Let’s hear it for the north, eh? SoCal is brutal when it comes to what a “normal” woman’s size is. As if.