thinking back and today

Hi all,

when I think back on my marriage to my wife I think about good times and bad and I realize just how much I care about her .

we have had many good times and we have had some really bad times there have been times when I thought it was going to be over between my wife and I because there were some really bad things that happened in our relationship but we managed to get by those times and keep things together .

the best thing is we are talking to each other alot more – we still keep some things to ourselves but we are talking alot more about what is bothering us which really helps because when we were keeping everything that was bothering us inside it was destroying us .

today I am more understanding and supportive of my wifes bisexual side , it took me a long time to get to this point and it was very hard for me to understand but we have talked alot and I told her I am ok with her having a girlfriend (she has a girlfriend who lives in another state)as long as it does not mess up our relationship and I also told her that I can not deal with her cheating on me with any other guy and if she ever did that I would not be able to forgive her for it and it would be the end of our marriage – she told me that I don’t ever have to worry about that because she loves me too much to do that .

since my wife and I have talked about stuff our relationship has been alot better and our love and feelings for each other are stronger than they have been in along time !!

Rol