got some advise need some more

Hi I appreciate the advise given to me earlier and I would like to know if there are any guys who  have a girl friend or wife that are bisexual or have been through or are going through what I am dealing with .

 as a man in this situation I do not understand why my wife has these feelings , the girl she talks to is also married with 2 kids and it sounds like her husband is as confused as I am about the whole thing .

 both our wives say they care for each other but still care about us husbands and do not want to leave us .

their family and mine live in 2 diffrent states – my wife and her gf  to talk online and have no plans on meeting each other in the near future and they want to be open and honest about how they feel .

although I am not to thrilled about my wife wanting to explore her bi side , I feel if she doesn’t her bi feelings may get too strong and she could leave me to explore that side of her sexuality and that is the last thing I want to happen .

what I am trying to understand is why my wife has these feelings and how I should feel about her bisexuality.

my wife loves me very much and the last thing she is trying to do is hurt me – she just wants me to know whats going through her head – I read about bisexuality earlier and it says that people who are bi have a tendency to care for people of both sexes and that they have just as strong feelings for a man and or a woman – it also says that people who are bi are usually born that way.

My wife has told me that I come first in the relationship and that she never wants to hurt me , but she also wants me to know that she does have other feelings .

my wife has told me that no matter what I come first in any relationship .

I hope when I wrote earlier it did not cunfuse anyone as to how I am feeling I just feel the need to understand what bisexuality is about and decide what to do from here on out !!

MR O