DEATH BY 2

I rarely talk about my daughter’s mother here in a good light, but her new year has had two tragic things happen to her already. When we was talking to one another she told me about her mother being sick, I just never knew how sick she was, well on new years day I found out………..because she passed away…………of lung cancer, death bothers everyone, even the most strongest, manly men can’t say it doesn’t, but this one………hit me hard, as you all have heard from me a thousand times over my father died of lung cancer after suffering with it for a whole year, so for me to hear that her mom died of the same thing really bothered me. She was my daughter’s grandmother, I never met her but I heard great things about her, which made it even harder to hear that she had past on. My daughter was ofcourse upset, so told her as best I could that she was in a better place and she was in no pain anymore………..she understood that, but it was still very sad, then on the day of her grandmom’s funeral, not even 24 hours later, her brother’s father past away as well……..from diabetes, wow. I called her last night to see how she was doing and she told me that, I also never met my daugther’s brother’s father, I only heard about him threw her mother, but either way its still sad as hell. Death……….can be sudden, it can be stunning, and it can hit people in different ways, I know my daughter’s mother is mourning in her own way, and god knows I didn’t want to get her worked up what was going on with me and her, but I had to call and tell her if she ever needed anything or needed me to talk to my baby……….no problem, its the least I could do. I may be a stubborn, self center, depressed fool sometimes, but bad is bad, no matter what’s going on……….I SAY R.I.P. to both of them, and may they both find peace wherever they end up………………SO SAY WE ALL.