May 2011

So,

I totally forgot that this was here.

Lets see. In the past year or so I turned 30. It was less traumatic than I thought it would’ve been. I’m still with the same guy. Still unmarried (not engaged either, nor are we living together) I’m in therapy for various reasons. I don’t think it’s helping though, mostly because I’m completely think headed and don’t do the exercises that my therapist tells me to do. My fault. But i think i need to get out of the mindset that therapy is just an hour with which I can use to bitch about things, and actually use it to affect change in my life. though, i will say it HAS been helpful, some of the tools and whatnot.

my boyfriend’s landlord recently replaced the house lock, and my boyfriend was flat out told that i was not to get a new key to the place. I did feel slightly offended by that.  I mean, how long had I had a key to the place before that? Its not like I abused the privilege. Like, seriously only went over when I was invited, never there if the boyfriend wasn’t there (unless he left for a quick errand). BF says, hey, don’t take offense, landlord is just being security conscious/paranoid. but it occurs to me that if i leave after everyone, or if i leave when no one is available to lock the door behind me, he’s opening himself up to badness because I can only lock the one lock (non-deadbolt) behind me.

other than that. things are good. yay.