Red_James

April 12, 2011

When did it become…

…the norm? Acceptable? Even really thought of beyong the thought of “fantasy” or “what if?”

I am talking about cheating, and not just cheating in general, i am talking about cheating when you have a family?

Now first off this isnt directed towards any of my several favs who have done just this.. as much as it pisses me off and makes me lose whatever small amount of faith i do still have in man kind.. which has never been alot….

anyways, if your single and you wanna fuck around and have fun and fuck like a monkey with every place you can, hellz ya go nuts, there is NOTHING and i mean NOTHING wrong with that at all, as long as your safe and use protection well doing so unwanted babies and abortions and STD’s arent cool. But aside from that whatever live it up and try to reach the triple digits by all means.

OK if you dating someone and its just not working out and you have already decided its not gonna work you just havent found the right time to end it and you meet someone you wanna dunk donuts with, whatever tap that shit, and then quickly find a way to end it with said waste of skin you are with.

But, if you are with someone long term dating say 2 or 3 years and you are just bored or angry with them or just fucking stupid and you cheat or cheat often, then you are just a piece of shit and should be bitch slapped over and over until no one likes that little face of yours.

Now heres what really gets me someone is single and goes and hooks up with someone who is married. Now WTF? first off yes you are single but come on really? would you want that if you were on the other end? Like fuck me what kind of idoit are you? Ok you know what whatever you wanna say to justify means fuck all, on either side, if your married and cheating, kill yourself, if your single and cheating with someone you KNOW is married well i hope you make the news when the other partner finds out and comes a looking for you with a shotgun and goes trigger happy.

NOW even something that makes ME want to go trigger happy, one is single one is married AND with kids! like WTF! first off if your got kids and cheating…. you know what no words can say what kind of trash you are, but to be single and cheating with someone you know who is married and HAS kids, wtf is a matter with you? Like fuck me sideways, why? why would you do that? why would you even think to come between someone and their family? Obviously said person isn’t in a well put together life with their partner, but do you really need to add your ass to that mess? you could say “well they would cheat anyways be it with me or not” NOT if everyone had some fucking god damn dignity and self respect, then he/she would have no one to cheat with and would have to suck it up and deal with whatever problem is in their life that has brought them to that cross road.

Bottom line if you think you have to cheat or want to cheat and we are not talking about seeing someone who is hot and you stop and think to yourself fuck ya i’d tap that shit, thats not cheating or wanting to cheat, thats natural sexual lusting, we are primal animals who enjoy looking and thinking about things we want to rut with. BUT if you make the choice ot take yourself off the fuck truck and get into a relationship then you’ve made your choice and stick with it OR have the fucking balls to tell your partner “hey you know what it aint working, i dont wanna be with you anymore, peace” i dont give a fuck if you’ve been together for 20 years and it finally comes to that, whatever don’t waste your life with someone you arent happy with, and if you are wanting to cheat or are cheating, then you aint got nothing and need to get fucked and stop wasting their time.

Bottom line GROW SOME FUCKING BALLS WORLD! AND GET SOME FUCKING HONOR AND DIGINITY AND SOME SELF FUCKIGN RESPECT!

end rant

Nods.

deviously_devine

April 13, 2011

breathe dear LOL

Spacelion

Ahahaha we’re in total agreement my friend. People who cheat are ****ing cowards in my book. Too yellow to break up with the person they love, but apparently brazen enough to willingly **** everything up in the process. Love for your SO and kiddies is about putting their feelings above your own and cheating sort of contradicts that. It really makes me angry to know people are willing to risk their

kids hating them and breaking someone they apparently loves heart over 30 minutes of fun :/

Desert Diva

People have cheated since the beginning of time. The difference now is that it has become mainstream and acceptable.

Sundew

Hell yeah. Would like to slap this into at least one person’s head.

lady.danger

Interesting, would like to know how you feel about Open Marriages…?

wh!tehot

Amen brotha. It bothers me that it’s become the norm as well, I wish more people thought of it like you do.

geheimnis

oversimplification?

DevilishlyInnocent

LOL Very passionate, I will say. I have been on both sides of the argument. I have been cheated on, true. It’s hurt a couple of times, but I’m the person who works crazy hours, and doesn’t NEED a man, not the “damsel in distress” type.

A lot of guys can’t handle a woman like me, so yeah, they go looking for a girl who’ll make them feel like a man. As for enjoying a taken man, you said it yourself: I am single. Their commitment, or lack thereof, is NONE of my business

I do what I want, when I want, who I want. And yes, I’ve had several girls come and try to physically attack me over it, but I’M not the one with the commitment or ring on my finger. I just treated them better. And when they tried to smack me, they found out the hard way I’m not to be trifled with. LOL.

So, you feel the way you do, but the fahked up reality of it is…people suck, no one is perfect, and some of us just don’t give a shit. It’s happened to me before, I have no doubt it’ll happen to me again. In a relationship, I am faithful, but it honestly does no good, really.

So in the end, what’s the point? I gave up on men period. I gave up on people period. If that makes me a bad person in other peoples eyes, oh well, that’s their problem. Not mine. If people truly valued their relationships, no one would EVER feel the need to cheat. That’s a sad fact of life.

LOL!! There are several, and far worse trespasses in which faith in humanity is shaken. How is it I am responsible for someone else’s relationship and its success? When I’m happily involved with someone, I have no need to step out and look for anything.

Just curious to get a man’s perspective on this question. What about the married man who has (at the time) three kids who decided to go off and avail himself of the services offered by prostitutes? Man happily married and has a good sex life with his wife. My thoughts are that he’s the same kind of ass**** as if he’d gone out and had an affair. Others beg to differ.

QuietDragon

I’ve never understood cheating. I’ve always thought that if you want to do that…then get out of the relationship. It’s like at least have the respect to not further hurt that other person cause let’s face it NO ONE wants to be cheated on. People being that way is why for so long I stayed single, waited until I found someone worth it.

~Daisy~

from my experience(talking!) to married/taken men, they are happy with their SO in every way except sexually and don’t want to end it over something like that. however like you said, they have needs too. i don’t agree with them. if they can’t make it work in every way then they should breakup.

if you take the vows then you need to live by them, people are making marriage out to be such a cheap thing nowadays… there is no such thing until death do us part… its until I find someone better.

ryn: Thanks! I believe so too. Lets just add that the wife only found out because she got an std…and had only ever had one sexual partner her whole life.

*slashed & bleeding*

I LOVE this! I’m in total agreement with you.

Desp

April 14, 2011

Agreed, cheating is terrible. Those that want to cheat should get out of their relationship first. and DevilishlyInnocent if you are having sex with a man that you know has a girlfriend or wife then you really are no better than he is.

lisyl

April 15, 2011

Funny, I just wrote an entry (not public) about admiring open marriages, but loathing cheating. And I hate every goddamned song that asks us to sympathize with a cheater. (“Lips of an Angel” etc.)

i had to come back and give this entry and the notes another read, since it’s touching on a few recent encounters of my life. the one and only thing that could be agreed upon is that every opinion here is subjective. there is no right and wrong. open marriages, is the mistress just as bad as the cheater, etc etc. ppl will never agree on it and could debate it until the end of time. the only thing

to do is agree to disagree.