NoJoMo Day 9: shallow is as shallow does

A fave of mine posted an entry about an entry written by someone she read.  It made me start pondering and then start being thankful for some of the amazing people in my life.

So this guy wrote about how the girl he is sleeping with is apparently not quite up to his standards.  He has tried to change her to fit his standards.  She is insecure from her last relationship already and here is this guy trying to ‘fix’ her.

Wow.  It makes me so grateful for people in my life.  I know where this girl stands though.  I’m highly insecure from people trying to fix me.  The ridiculous part is though, most of it is my own family trying to fix me.  Yeah how effed up is that?  

But there are my friends, who any time I am down on myself start listing off reasons why I am wonderful just the way that I am.  And there is Isaac, who almost every time he sees me tells me that I’m beautiful, that I’m amazing, that I’m perfect.  These people make me feel blessed because they accept me for who I am, not how I look.  They don’t try to ‘fix’ me.

Okay, ranting aside for now, I have errands to run before I have to go to work tonight and I have cleaning to take care of after that so I guess I’m off.  I may edit this later, who knows.

Xx