Interesting…

In your birth chart, Venus has a difficult relationship with Saturn in Sarah’s chart. Though this aspect denotes a long lasting relationship between the two partners, it does not guarantee your complete happiness. You may feel frustrated by Ian’s tendency to sacrifice feelings for self-interest and security. You give him a lot of yourself, but he does not give you much in return. This could be harmful to your relationship. Even if Ian’s actions are, as he says, “in your best interest”, you should still share your feelings of frustrations with him. If you do not fix this problem, it might mean the end of your relationship; or, worse yet, the relationship could take on a kind of sado-masochistic aura about it.

The Sun in your birth chart is in a close angular relationship Pluto in Ian’s birth chart. Pluto represents transformation and presides over the deep changes in our personalities; changes that take place, for the most part, as a result of trying, difficult experiences. These planets, your Sun and Ian’s Pluto, are not in harmony together, therefore, they indicate a complicated, but extremely intense relationship. When you met Ian, something changed in your consciousness, and in your relationship with yourself. Your extremely tense, and sometimes complicated relationship with Ian seems like one long emotional crisis after another. This has caused some profound psychological changes in you. You do not look at yourself, or at your future in the same way as you did before. This passion (because that is just what it is, a passion) involves the deepest, most hidden parts of your personality. It brings your sexuality to the surface, which may be hard for you to accept. The relationship is both invigorating and destructive, tender and cruel, and is anything but calm and peaceful. There will be a current of separation and reconciliation in this relationship, according to your individual personal developments, and your needs for security and autonomy. This compelling relationship, in which enchantment alternates with disgust, love with hate, and desire with indifference, uncovers the most hidden facets of your personality and promises a radical metamorphosis in your life.