Family Drama/Stress

Lately there has been some family drama going on and really stressful. First one day last week I saw on my sister in laws fb page "If u find me dead,look under the house" well considering they live out of state, it was too late to call right away to check on her and my brother. I called her the next day and she laughed it off  saying she was just joking. Then it took 2 more days to get ahold of my brother to check on him and he laughed it off too. Saying it was her having a bad day and her sick sense of humor ( I never even knew she had ANY sense of humor) After talking to my brother telling him about whats going on with all of us out here, he decides to pretty much talk nothing but shit about how I live my life and how all I do is wrong. On this same day, we had a huge fire at the local mall and my younger brother works there and I spent all that morning not knowing if he was at work when the fire happened. Luckily he wasnt at work that day. It really pissed me off and hurt my feelings how my older brother talked to me like that. He doesnt seem to realize the positive changes Ive made in my life and just thinks I use my AA mtgs to socialize and thinks I could do that by going and getting a real job. He doesnt realize how hard we work for anything extra we do get. It also doesnt matter to him that I no longer live with a man that beats on me and that this is the longest Ive lived on my own and stayed clean and sober. But oh well, my parents and everyone out here knows the positive changes Ive made in my life.