But when?
Today i’m having another mini-nervous breakdown.
Normally I make it to about 7 or 8pm until I fall apart, but today I’ve not even got that far.
I have no-one and it is killing me. Every day i wake up on my own, i wander into town on my own, i spend the afternoon on my own, by the evening it’s gotten so painful and lonely that i end up doing anything to try to get rid of that loneliness – normally talking to sleezy guys on the internet.
No-one has touched me in months. I don’t mean in a sexual way, I mean just touching me like a hug or touching my arm.
No-one ever contacts me unless i contact them first.
The last time i went out, even with friends is months ago.
My only friend here spends 24/7 with her boyfriend who she is blatently going to marry. She literally wont get in touch with me unless he’s gone away for about a week and then she may ask me to do something. That has happened once in a year.
I am literally alone, all the time. I was ok with it at first, but it has been going on for months and months now, and i cant keep going with it anymore. I cannot survive spending every day on my own. It is honestly painful, and every single night i get SO down and upset about it.
I am alone right now and i will remain alone until i go back to work on Monday. Not a single person will see me or speak to me. And that will only change on monday because i will go back to work and detest every single minute of it, and the people i interact with there will make me feel like a piece of shit on the bottom of their shoe.
And that is all i have to look forward to.
Even if i get through tonight and manage to distract myself, tomorrow i will wake up alone, i will remain alone during the day, during the evening i will be alone, i will go to bed alone, the next day i will wake up alone, i will be alone during the day etc etc etc ad inifintum.
If i’m lucky, an old contact on messenger may pop up and ask me what i’m wearing.
That is all i have to look forward to.
you could always write me a letter… I feel you on the loneliness.. when marcus is away like he is now I am lucky if i even have people at work talking to me.
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pick up a hobby. Maybe a community class, karate? Dance? Something to get out and meet people.
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Maybe you’ve pushed people away from you to protect yourself. But, you can change this – maybe find some clubs & meetings (look in the cities newspaper?) I know how you feel about friends, I HAVE to arrange stuff/call first and it bugs me to. x
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i know how you feel… that’s how I felt in the Caribbean. On Friday when I came home from class I wouldn’t see anybody until I went to school on Monday. It’s horrible, and not natural to spend so much time alone. It’s so hard to meet people when you don’t have anybody to network through. Maybe there is some kind of class you can sign up for? Or some kind of group to get involved in. *hug*
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xo
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I know exactly how you feel, it’s horrible being totally on your own and the only people you talk to are those in work. The last couple of xmases I’ve not spoken to anyone for pretty much the whole 2 week break, it’s really depressing.
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I know it feels like nobody wants you, but have you tried making contact with them? Sometimes people are just waiting for you to contact them, like you are with your friends. I know it’s sucky and I feel shitty about it too, but I don’t like seeing you upset or lonely. Maybe you should try and do something aside from work and home, find SOMETHING to do! I hope it improves…
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