Weekend ends with a bang :(
I was a very lucky girl and spent my weekend with Nick 🙂
I spent the night Thursday and he had dinner waiting for me as I was coming from work. He spoils me rotten. Then he gave me a full body massage. Can you say heaven??? He has the strongest, yet most gentle caressing hands 🙂 Great way to unwind!
I went home Friday during the day and saw the movie Bridesmaids with Mom. We never laughed so hard lol
Friday night I met him back at the house and he made me homemade pizza 🙂 Then we went to see Something Borrowed. Yes he took me to a chick flick!
Saturday we slept in and then got ready for his cousin’s graduation party. I met aunts, uncles, a grandma, cousins and his brother. His uncle had a very very nice house in Canal Winchester. It was a nice time and everyone was very nice and welcomng. His aunt kept introducting me as "Nicholas’ gf" I didn’t have the heart to tell her we hadn’t established that yet lol Then they asked how we met and when we told them Match.com they were actually pretty interested and positive about it.
Then we left there and went to another movie lol We saw Hangover 2. Not as good as the first one but it was funny. Afterwards we grabbed dinner and then went home. We ended up having the house to ourselves which was great.
Yesterday my boss threw a cookout, so Nick went with me. He can be really shy around new people, but he was great and we had a nice time.
Then it was back home last night. My mother in law was here mowing our grass at 9 fricking PM! Apparently my soon to be ex whined to her that it needed mowed. (He was in a cast and is now in a boot and can’t do it. Therefore I have done it the last 3 times) He know I would be gone all weekend. She got done and didn’t have the balls to come in. Big suprise.
Then comes the bang…
My ex got the papers from the attorney and pretty much told me last night, they were to be signed Tuesday. Well I haven’t even looked at them and I wanted an attorney to look at them to make sure I am not getting screwed. Well today he brings it up again and when I told him I was not signing them, he got very angry and flew off the handle. He was in my face and grabbed my computer off my lap like he was going to throw it. I was scared he was going to hit me. I started crying and he backed off. He calmed down and apologized, but I don’t give a damn.
This was not the first time he has gotten angry and I felt like he may hit me. The whole incident just proves to me that I am making the right move in getting this divorce.
Thank god for my family, Nick and friends for being there for me. I am staying as positive as I can and looking forward to a bright future.
Well I should head to bed.
L
you are making the right choice. besides the ex thing sounds like a good weekend.
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Ryn: that’s hilarious! which location was your lucky Max n’ Erma’s? Mine was the Polaris one. 🙂
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ALSO, I am so glad you are getting out! I think you and I need to meet in person and celebrate our divorces when its all over, lol! 🙂
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