Katrina Report – We’re Safe

Today is our first day back to work and I wanted to drop a note to let all my friends here know that I and my family are safe. Thanks to you all for your emails, calls, and notes of concern and love. Baton Rouge here is about 100 miles northwest of New Orleans so although we had some significant power outages and some felled trees, we fared well and are not decimated as are our friends, families, and neighbors to our southeast. Clean up was minimal (for me) and we were without power for only about 12 daylight hours on storm Monday. Worst damage here to us was a few shingles off the roof and some small branches of debris.

Most importantly, my son, Wade, and daughter, Jill, (and an elderly aunt and two cousins staying with a third cousin here in town) arrived safely in convoy from New Orleans among the mass evacuees on Saturday. It took them about eight hours for a usual 1.5 hour trip on the back roads with me giving them directions via cell phone since they had to go where they were directed in the major arteries leading out of New Orleans. It was one of those “can’t get there from here” for a while as they were routed northeast despite having family (us) northwest. I had told them to pack all that was irreplaceable since I did not expect they would have anything to return to (I had first-hand post-storm experience with both Camille and Andrew – I’d seen the results of Cat 5 and hoped I would never again). They arrived with one dog, one cat, and what personal treasures they have. Although they lived in second story places in the business district which was holding its own with respect to water until the levees gave, they have accepted as best they can that nothing remains there for them. Even if their places were miraculously saved, the remaining homeless and/or looters would finish the job Katrina started. My third child, Jake, moved back to Birmingham from New Orleans for a job about two months ago and he is ok. That’s the good news. The bad news is that all of his household goods were in storage until he got settled in – stored in…New Orleans. So…all three have pretty much lost everything they owned…no renters’ insurance of course…young people could never see the purpose…until now.

Oh well…just stuff. All replaceable.

Wade and Jill are pretty much in shock. The news and video are truly devastating to us all, but especially to them. Jill cannot watch or hear the news any longer it depresses her so – she loved her city of New Orleans. Wade is just the opposite and cannot turn from it. I took him motorcycle riding yesterday because as stoic as he was trying to be (and he does have a tendency to hold things in) I could see it was having an effect on him. The break did him (and me) good. Both have pretty much declared they will not go back (it will be months before they could). They feel there will be no reason. They are both pretty much unemployed as of now – both looking at the want ads yesterday for interim jobs. Jill speaks of going to San Francisco (she has a cousin there) and Wade talks of going back to Birmingham.

When my kids hurt, I hurt. My distress is there for them. They will ultimately need…stuff. But as unfortunate as it is, it is part of life. They are alive and will recover from this. In the meantime, it is us…the family…that provides a bridge. So…until….???…the four of us will live together in a place planned for two (and an overnight visitor) with two dogs (including one very large and destructive eight month old chocolate lab puppy who has already destroyed every screen in the house and any glass items within his considerable reach – beautiful dog, clumsy and good-natured as he is), two cats, and another hyper sissy dog (my wife’s). And you know what? I thank God for all this.

As a community, we have some challenges as well. We are the closest metropolitan area to the devastated region and we are the state Capital. We become a refugee camp. Our population doubles or triples and our infrastructure is not prepared for that. Our already inadequate road systems are jammed. Our resources are stretched thin in all areas. All rental properties (business and housing) have been taken. Gas (when found) is being hoarded. Food is available, but limited. Bread has recently been a valuable commodity, mostly because power outages accompanied with the population explosion dictates sandwiches as the meals of choice. I know of no home here that is not accommodating refugee friends and families. A Pepperidge Farm truck arrived at an Albertson’s market I was in yesterday, and the crowd that gathered at the truck for its bread resembled the fall of Saigon in my eyes. One lady next to me said she had twenty people staying in her home and she needed to feed them. All restaurants (and hotels) are full…all the time. There will be no jobs to be had until we disperse some of this population.

And…crime will increase…it already has. I look out the window from where I type this and two blocks away is the Civic Center – the one you have seen on national coverage – our refugee center (along with LSU). I see homeless and unsavory characters wandering our downtown streets. The prisons in New Orleans and surrounding storm areas were released we hear. Women have been advised not to travel anywhere alone. I am old enough to have seen devastation – storms, wars, etc. – in my experiences it is in such times that my Americans step up to the plate and we work together to take care of one another. I have seen that more often than I ever cared to. What I see now is much too much…inhumanity. I recognize and have seen desperation and the acts of desperate people. I recognize the penchant for the media to hone in on the negativity. I recognize and know there are thousands of good people doing good things and are exhausted for doing it but will continue – there are heroes out there doing wonderful things. But…there is still too much inhumanity. There is lawlessness and looters (as there always are), but there seems to be more of them. There is greed and self-serving beyond compare. There are opportunists (and I include white collar robber barons here too…that will out). Five minutes ago I came across one of our state maintenance workers transporting a generator. It had been removed from an area of less need. He said they were trying to get it to New Orleans. A truckload of generators that had made it there had been robbed at gunpoint. The truck was robbed right from the site where they were intended to be put in use and where the existing generators from that site had been stolen. That site? A hospital. Charity hospital. These are not my Americans. It is this that shakes my personal core values. It is this most of all for which I weep.

We will pull together…the rest of us…here. Help is on its way and we will do what we need to do to put this all back together somehow. We are the lucky ones. We have lost our gem…our beloved New Orleans…but it will be rebuilt – the souls the city (and the entire Gulf Coast) has and will give up serve as the true benchmark for this tragedy. And I fear in this regard we are seeing the tip of the iceberg. Now comes…pestilence.

Let me express my most sincere gratitude to all of you who have personally offered to help me and my family with whatever you can, but we are fine and have beentruly blessed. As many of you have asked me, I recommend if you are able, and care to, that you donate (as in all such catastrophes): blood (as my family did yesterday), and/or monetary donations to the Red Cross or Salvation Army. The need is great as I am sure you are aware.

Again, thanks to all of you…my OD family.

*****

EDIT: We just got notification from our public address system that we are not to leave the building until further notice and our adjacent high-rise parking garage has been locked. We are in lock down.

So it begins…

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September 1, 2005
September 1, 2005

katrina hadn’t touched me or made me think as i am waay over here in chicago and NO is waaaay over there, but reading this has made me start to cry.. i cannot imagine what all these people are going through.. my best wishes and thoughts to your family and loved ones who are dealing with this, directly and indirectly. be well. many hugs.

September 1, 2005

It’s so hard to convey the utter horror but yet the stories of bravery and courage. Thank you for sharing your family members safe journey. All of this makes life’s stupid parts seem so insignificant.

September 1, 2005

Here you are. I swear I could almost cry. Thank God you’re all safe.

KK
September 1, 2005

I’m so glad to hear from you personally, though I heard from another OD’er that you were OK. I’m so sorry that your kids lost all their things, but you are right – they are just things. They are lucky to have you, and each other. Thank you for showing me that lovely city last spring in a way it can never be seen again. I didn’t know at the time how fond I would be of that visit, but I am.

September 1, 2005

Thanks for the update!

September 1, 2005

I’m so very relieved to read this. I’m sorry your family has lost so much, but thank God they survived.

I’m repeating myself but I can’t seem to help it – I’m from N.O. (in the Pacific Northwest now) & I can’t tear myself away from the TV coverage tho the heartbreak is more than I can bear. My family safely evacuated on Saturday. It gets worse each day instead of better, it is too big for me to grasp. I’m so glad your family is safe.

Thank God you and yours are safe. Praying to God for others who aren’t….

I am so glad that you are ok, darlin’. You were one of the first people I thought of, even though I knew where you lived. Regarding your family, I might be able to help them find employment. Email me and give me some background. I might also be able to give them some short term shelter if they need it, free of charge, of course. Our business rarely has any turnover, but we might be able to

hire one or two in this time of crisis. Let me know. Also know that I’m heartbroken too. I dearly loved the Crescent City. The images shown on TV devastate me. ((Phaedrus))

September 1, 2005

Yes, it’s the criminality and inhumanity that is the most distressing thing amidst all of this suffering…how have we let our beloved country come to tghis point and how do we restore the civility and respect once they have been allowed to wither? I’m glad you and your family are safe, at least…let us know if there is anything we can do for them, personally, please?

September 1, 2005

…our thoughts and prayers are truly with you, man…

September 1, 2005

you are all in my thoughts.

September 1, 2005

thank God that you and yours are ok. was worried so.

I wish I had words but I only have tears and love to leave here for you and yours. Sending up prayers for everyone. LWM 143

Mo
September 1, 2005

thank you for letting us know. please let me know if we can do anything. we are in central missouri if any of your friends or family need to come this way. we have beds and floor space and possibly job leads. and 5 cats so no one will lack for pussy!

I have an appt today to donate blood and have donated to the Red Cross. I was serious about my offer to send you a box of food…let me know.

Sigh. Acts of nature are one thing; inhumanity by people is so much more discouraging to me. I am SO glad your family is well. You’re right: stuff is replaceable; people are not. Thank you for writing this, and letting us know you and yours are doing okay.

September 1, 2005

So glad all y’all are safe and that you were able to report in.

Lor
September 1, 2005

HOLY SHIT! You know, these are things we never think of in California… SUre we see the damage on the news, but it is impossible for me to grasp that these people have no lives to go back to, and the impact on the surrounding communities… just… wow…

Ummm…they did lock you on the INside, right? I’ll be there soon to help protect the Batmobile and Harley. I got my priorities straight! :o)) LWM 143

September 1, 2005

Such a relief to see your update. I’m so relieved to hear your family is safe. Still, so much heartbreak. I have often been asked, when on the road for the travel writing, what my favorite city is. New Orleans has always been at the top. Please let me know if there is anything I can send, food, clothes, aside from regular Red Cross donations. If you will be able to distribute anything. xxoo,

Popped over from Random A. to wish you well. This isn’t a perspective I’d considered… the impact on neighboring cities. Goodness, be safe. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

please send me your phone number: parkslopeallison@yahoo.com. i need to talk to you.

September 1, 2005

someone just told me to read you…i am in monroe and fear your trouble is headed our way. i have never seen anything like this.

September 1, 2005

I sent my pilot to ya – how’s that for a donation? Words are beyond me. I simply can’t wrap my mind around it. This is an event the has shown the best and worst of who we are as Americans. My very best to your and your family – and if there is anything you need and any way to get it to you – by all means – let me know!

September 1, 2005

thank God you and your family are all alright. take care,

September 1, 2005

Glad that you are all well physically…

So relieved to know you’re safe.. and your kids are as well. You are right – they lost their stuff.. but they have their lives and that’s alot in consideration for what happened and what continues to go on there. I hope with this edit of a lockdown that you are safe still. I am ashamed of the people who are taking advantage of this terrible situation. It’s so wrong. ~prayers and hugs~

September 1, 2005

I am so glad to hear from you and realized that had you not written here some of us wouldn’t have known your condition.It’s a relief to hear that you’re well…thanks for taking the time to write.

i hope your safety continues……i worry

I hope you know my second note yesterday was written with hope a tiny smile would appear on your handsome face. Sending prayers your way, my friend. LWM 143

September 2, 2005

Found you through RandomAccess. This post brought me to tears. I’m so very glad you and your family are well, will keep you all in my prayers.

September 2, 2005

God Phaedrus, I’ve been in tuned to what’s going on, but wrapped up in my newborn and toddler when it suddenly dawned on me you are in N.O.!! I hadn’t been online to see your posts but immediately called Imp who told me all was “ok” with you and your family. SO glad to hear it. I would wish better and more for your and yours, but glad beyond reason everyone is safe. *HUGS* and BE Safe!!

September 2, 2005

Even if you and your family don’t need direct help, is there somewhere local to you that we can send money, goods, etc, that might help, rather than giving to a not-local organization? I’d like to see what is donated going directly to those who need it, rather than filtered through someplace that is not directly involved, or skims off the top…

gel
September 2, 2005

So glad to see you here. I hope your safety continues. My thoughts are with you and your family.

September 3, 2005

Thank God your family is safe.Yes, there are the desperate looters, food, diapers, water, formula, but there is also the criminals out there. Murders, rapes, etc. Why steal a TV when the have no home or power to watch it? It is good your family is out of there!

September 3, 2005

Why is your building in lock down? That is scary!

Oh Phaedrus, I have been in tears for days. Doing what I can from this end. Money and prayers going out from California. Hugs,

September 3, 2005

So glad to hear from you in the midst of such devastation and despair.

I’m glad to read that you’re okay. I’m shocked at what’s happening still…

September 6, 2005

Thank you for this update. Your comments about hijacked resources makes it more easy to understand when there is trouble getting supplies to disaster areas across the globe. God bless you and your family.