Thursday Morning

Today is the Feast of the Epiphany otherwise known as Little Christmas Day. Today we {ummm translate that as me} take down the Christmas tree and the decorations. This goes well with what I had planned to do today which is to get started on the bedroom, especially my side of the bed. You may not see what taking down Christmas stuff has to do with cleaning the bedroom, but the storage place for the Christmas stuff is in the bedroom and to get to it, one has to move several large clothes-storage totes out of the way. So, since I am going to have to move them anyway…

The visiting nurse comes today. There is a small part of Fred’s incision where a staple came out too soon that is not healing. This morning, it was seeping a clear fluid. I put a band aid on it and it is on the list of things to mention to the nurse {Nikki} if she doesn’t bring it up. So far, she has been excellent about bringing up the things that I wanted to talk to her about anyway. Apparently I amuse her with my written lists because last time she asked with a smile if she had covered everything on my list! LOL

I have already been for my morning walk. I am working diligently to get us both back to as normal a routine as possible because I know routine is good for me and I think it will help Fred. Last night I took half a Klonopin and slept well all night not hearing or being disturbed by Fred getting up. He is still up for a while and then going back to bed but it does seem, like a baby who is growing, that his sleeps are getting less and his up-time is growing. This morning he said something that made me realize that he is planning ahead for the removal of the Foley catheter and bag. The damned thing is constantly giving him trouble, admittedly only minor troubles and he is dealing with them, but I am glad he is planning to get it out soon. It will be, for me, the final step that indicates we are back to normalcy.

I thought our landlords were coming back from Utah yesterday but there is no sign of their truck. Our neighbor came over and let Malcom out and he is outside now. When he saw me come out to put out some trash, he got very excited because I was dressed to go walking. He always thinks he should be going with me when I am wearing a coat.

OOOOH! Malcolm is barking like crazy and doors are slamming below! They are back!

Until later…

 

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January 6, 2005
January 6, 2005

Brina is hopeful in the morning that she and I are going for a walk. I have been neglecting my walks. I really need to start that up again. Have a great day!

January 6, 2005

Yes, our tree also has to stay up till the epiphany. Sometimes it’s such a hassle that if it weren’t for hubby, I wouldn’t even bother putting it up to begin with. Lol. Glad to hear you got a good nights sleep. You need to keep your strength up also. I hope that his insicion heals up soon, and good for you for making a list. It really is a good idea. Take care, and stay strong

Gradually back to normalcy. That’s wonderful, Patricia.

Shi
January 6, 2005

The visting nurse sounds very good and really on the ball. 🙂

I think that if the seepage is clear, that’s not “bad,” as puss and infections tend to be cloudy and colored. Sounds like you and Malcom need to bond again!

January 6, 2005

if I don’t make lists, I never remember anything! LOL 🙂

January 6, 2005

*huggs* I am going on my “power walk” soon after I finish the updating, and that is so nice that Malcom wants to escort you on your walk. What a doggie gentleman.

normal can be a good thing

January 6, 2005

Thank you for the notes. It’s a comfort to know that there are people out there who understand. Your Fred must be a very special man. I pray that his health continues to improve. It’s obvious how much you care about him, and I’m sure he loves you very much. Take care, and thanks again. You are too sweet.

January 6, 2005

Malcom will be a happy pooch now. And lists….well, where would we be without them? Especialy vital when dealing with medical info and questions.

January 6, 2005

Our decorations will come down this weekend. I kind of hate it because, fof a while, everything looks so bare. I guess I”ll have to do like my friend does and decorate for every holiday. *NOT* smile…

January 6, 2005

Glad to hear that the neighbors are back. Utah, huh? What a small world this has become!

January 6, 2005

OMGatos. Little Christmas. My mother always called january 6th that. I have never heard anyone else call it that. That was the day we took everything down. Thanks.