Sit on my car!

Its amazing what happens when “community” coalesces out of individuals doing seperate but same things – things become community property.

Today is St. Patricks Day. I was out late last night, and slept in. Not a problem, except I forgot about the parade. I live in the heart of downtown of The City. The parade route runs right in front of my place – twice – as the turn around point is the intersection closest to my building.

If I don’t move my car by 10 am, I am stuck there til after the parade.

I woke up …okay, I GOT UP at around 10:30, planning to clean up quickly and get out and start my day. But, I was already pinned in. I suppose I could have gotten out, but I’d have to go RIGHT THEN and move my car through a thin crowd, and many cones, etc.

Instead, I just resigned myself to cleaning my apartment (very much needed) and watching the parade.

And, thats where my observation comes in (no pun intended). I am watching from a 2.5 story window. I have a great view of the street, the turn around, and the crowd on both sides of the street. There is a throng of people probably 5 people deep on each side, with various wanderers milling between there and the buildings.

And there are people sitting on my car.

Not that I mind, mind you. I think its neat that when everyone gets together like that, personal property rights disappear for the common good. Yes, if I had shouted down “You Kids get out of my yard!!” (from Letterman) they would have got off my car, with little fuss. So I wasn’t bothered.

Now, if I had a NEW CAR, less than a year or two old, I might have a problem with it. In that case, I might just put a sign in the back window that says “Dont sit here” or something.

Anyway, today’s parade was one of the best I’d seen in recent years. An hour and a half long. (too long, actually. The crowd kinda thinned after a while). The highlights for me were the Large Vehicles…

Like most of our parades, there was the antique hook-n-ladder, and a pumper engine (plus an ambulance, and the Sheriff’s department latest “DARE” vehicle). But, this time there was also our modern Hook-n-Ladder truck, and a Tanker/Pumper from a rural firestation.

Then, the Army brought out two vehicles, one of which was a tank transport (sans tank). I only assume thats what it was used for – it was an oversize low-boy flatbed. It was huge. The other Army vehicle was large, too, and both had really neat sounding (meaning, different) airhorns.

A few floats later, there was a Volvo sleepercab Semi-tractor with full-length flatbed trailer. This was a family’s float! The Volvo semi tractor is a huge cab…

I point these out because a) I had never seen so many huge (long) vehicles in our parades before and b) their turn arounds were entertaining.

The antique hook-n-ladder had a steerable rear, and it made the turn around in a “4-lane with turn-lane” on both axies intersection just fine.

Our modern hook-n-ladder didn’t make it. They had to back-n-fourth at least twice, but eventually got turned.

The Army low-boy… that was pitiful. He back-n-forthed for nearly 10 minutes. When he finally completed the last turn and pulled back down the street, there was a cheer from the crowd for the driver.

Then came the Volvo semi… he made the turn in one fluid movement.

I was sooo impressed. He was obviously a professional over-the-road driver!

After the parade, I cleaned a bit more, then ate Chinese downstairs. Then I drove to College Town 30 minutes away to buy my new tent, and to see about cookstoves. In one of the stores I backed into an old friend, Josh, whom I haven’t seen in probably 8 years. His wife was being fitted for a backpack while he and I caught up.

I was on a schedule, unfortunately, because it was a pleasure to see him again and hear some of his stories (he and his wife are planning to hike the Appalachain Trail *sp?* next month).

I went to the other outdoor outfitter in College Town and picked up my tent. Its a Mountain Hardware Nightview. I picked it for its “nightview” feature (clear UVX panel in the rainfly so you can see stars at night) and its size. It feels comfortable to me without having a huge footprint. Also, good headroom.

Then, because of the time I spent talking, I rushed back to The City, where I was just 5 minutes late meeting Pastor Dean and his wife (of a church in the North of The City) for an Irish Stew at the local community center. They (the community center) are trying to raise money for a water-slide edition to the swimming pool.

Then, after a brief nap at home, I came up here to make journal notes.

I drove past my best-friend’s house on my way to College town. She lives in a pretty rural neighborhood. I see she took the topper off her pickup. I wonder how, and where it is? I wonder how she is doing?

But, just driving by gives me a sense of stability. Thats comforting. I have put my message to her “in the mail”. It consists of several sheets of notes, each sheet being a seperate idea or message. Also, a CD of the music I’ve been listening to for the first few months that she abandoned me. (titled “Winter”. I plan to make one for each season, and send them along)

I hope its the right thing to do. It hurts when I feel like all my choices are wrong. I hope this is the least wrong.

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March 18, 2001

Go with your gut… after all, no guts, no glory. =)

If you do what you think is best, from your heart, then you have done what is right for you. Unfortunately, you cannot control other people’s responses or lack thereof.

The topper shell is next to the driveway, where I used to park my car. And, unfortunately, I have not yet delivered package. Plan too this week.