Suburbia, Part 1: Where I grew up

Suburbia: land of middle class dreams and hopes for the “good life” fulfilled. Good schools. No crime. No gangs. Just a lot of invisible angst. Shady streets, two–car garages, neatly manicured lawns, tasteful homes and decor, swimming pools, sidewalks, hardly anyone knows anyone else. That describes my suburban neighborhood, alright.

I grew up in the Aurora Gardens subdivision in the Algiers section of New Orleans — quintessential “burbs” in the sixties (1961-69, to be exact). Oak trees surrounded us and lined the streets. I mowed lawns. I played basketball and football with kids who lived nearby. My elementary school was one block away. The parochial school was two blocks from us. Junior high five blocks. All walking distance. Convenience store 8 blocks away.

Strip shopping centers were only a mile or so distant, my favorite and the nearest having a grocery store, dime store, barber shop and Royal Castle hamburger restaurant. I often rode my bike up to the dime store where I bought my first abridged, Whitman Publishing Co. edition of “Huckleberry Finn.” (I have a copy of the same edition today).

Overall my subdivision and surrounding suburban tracts comprised a few square miles, a grid of interwoven streets, some winding, some straight and long. There was the lower middle class section around the junor high, and the uppper middle class section in the blocks perpendicular to Woodland Drive. Across Woodland Highway there was an older subdivision which preceded ours by about 10 years. It was known as “Old Aurora.” Somerset and Durham streets were directly in back of our house, a modified Cape Cod with a large bay window in front where my mother had a long row of exquisitely cared-for purple African violets in little containers. To this day I am unable to successfully grow them.

To a 12-year-old boy, the houses on our block seemed huge and dreamy, like mansions. The house across the street was enormous in my estimation when we first moved to Aurora Gardens. Of course, it really wasn’t, as I discovered in later years. A pediatrician, his glamorous socialite wife, and their five children lived there. The oldest son, Buddy, seemed arrogant to me, and we never got along, even though we were the same age.

Our street was, in fact, unique, not your typical suburban block. It stood out, and it had two houses in particular that were of ultra-modern design. I never could quite figure them out. One of them was next door to us and it burned in a bad house fire in 1964 when I was 13. I will never forget that night. It was quickly rebuilt, and the owners became one of my lawn mowing customers.

I grew up on TV sitcoms with nice, unreal, surreal families such as depicted in “Leave it to Beaver” and “Father Knows Best.” Let’s not forget “The Donna Reed Show.” You want to know what the dreammakers and myth spinners fed us on TV in those years? Those shows, with very excellent actors and characters, were a microcosm of the times. I didn’t say a realistic reflection. How much does popular culture via media like television tell the truth? Were we just being entertained? What was going on in those shows? Sometimes I think a scholar could write a dissertation on any one of them that I just mentioned. It probably has been done. (Remind me to check Dissertation Abstracts).

Where we lived in the flush years of the 1960s in New Orleans, the oil and gas industry in the city, and in Louisiana, was in its heyday. Thousands of mid-level managers and execs flooded into the city and got set up in the suburbs. Ours was notable for these transplants, often from places like California and Texas. It was all very affluent. Back then, I took it all for granted. This was the way people lived, raised families, sought out what their vision of the good life was, and that was that. By the time I was a junior in high school, it all gave me a big dull, achy feeling. A kind of numbness. I couldn’t process it all. I just knew I sure didn’t fit into that scheme of things.

Starting in 1968, a documentary photographer named Bill Owens, working for a newspaper in Livermore, Calif., began taking pictures that would later become the documentary photography book, “Suburbia.” It was published in 1972, right about the time I was finishing up college and getting ready to leave New Orleans for good. I think I actually came across the book in the late 1970s. Unlike the rather bleak outside shells of suburbia in Denver that Robert Adams photographs, Owens gets into the interiors of a certain class of suburbia, call it what you will. It is a vision that has always rather disturbed me. It’s real and unreal. Slightly tawdry and yet strikingly normal and human. Complex. On the surface, it is easy to dismiss his work, but upon deeper examination his vision of the world comes to light.

I keep wondering: Is his work universal or a reflection of the times he was living in?

If you want to delve a bit more deeply into the subject of Bill Owens’ photographs of suburbia, check out this

https://www.billowens.com/photographs/suburbia

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September 1, 2024

That kid on the Hot Wheels reminds me of my kid. They were popular around 1982-ish. Some of those pictures are very nostalgic.

September 1, 2024

@startingover_1 You’re right.  Owens had a way of capturing the quintessential suburban life.  It all started after World War II with Levittown on Long Island, NY, which eventually had 17, 000 cookie-cutter homes.  However, over decades  all the houses became  different as families came and went, modifying, enlarging and remodeling them until, with the growth of trees, it became an appealing sort of sprawl because every house had become unique in its own way.  And now it’s even historic.  75 years is a long time!

September 1, 2024

Loved reading this.  I remembered your name from OD years ago.  I went under the Leonalia back then. I loved the Donna Reed show and also the Loretta Young show when she would appear in the most beautiful gowns.  Thanks for the memory.

September 2, 2024

@leonalia I sure do remember you and your nice notes back in the day at OD.  So long ago, but what great memories of fellow diarists  such as yourself.  So glad to see your note!

I  am rather obsessed lately with Nostalgia.  Avidly paged through my latest issue of “Remind” magazine tonight.  Donna Reed had class and a style all her own.  She was amazing.  Of course, I thought all the TV mothers back then were great, especially Barbara Billingsley in “Leave It To Beaver.”

September 1, 2024

A lot of these photos ring true for me as well. I was too old to have a “big wheel,” but I rememberhow there was so little in the way of “culture.” My parents were city people (they met at Macy’s in Herald Square), so my sisters and I spent a lot of time there.

September 2, 2024

@ravdiablo The big suburban cultural events were the greatly anticipated Tupperware Parties!  It’s of fun for the cultured housewives.  Lol

September 1, 2024

You lived in Algiers?  We were neighbors — separated by time.  We lived in Marrero on the West Bank, between Westwego & Gretna.  It was a tract house in a little subdivision, and of course times were much different in the ’70s and it wasn’t nearly the “good life” that you enjoyed.  I have stories that would curl your hair, actually:  the “bosses” who ran Belle Chasse in Plaquemines Parish … the day the cops murdered the guy down the street …  But there were good times too — Mardi Gras, and all the little weekend festivals in the different towns.  And the food!  Did you ever go get sandwiches and sit down on the levy to eat them?

September 2, 2024

@ghostdancer Loved hearing of your New Orleans (Jefferson Parish) connection in Marrero.  I had known some of it before and would enjoy learning more.  Let’s share NOLA memories!

Funny thing, Algiers was New Orleans and Gretna, Marrero and Harvey were way off in another land — Jefferson Parish.  How exciting it was the go under the Harvey Canal via the Harvey Tunnel, and I think there was a drawbridge, too, in the days before and since the elevated Westbank Expressway (Highway 90).  The tunnel is now closed for two years for repairs.

You’ll enjoy this article:

https://www.nola.com/news/jefferson_parish/harvey-tunnel-closed-two-years-for-537-million-overhaul/article_6ca3ed38-9945-11ee-897f-1fabebb68507.html

The  thing is, I almost never went to the neighboring Jefferson Parish cities.  A few times maybe,  and across the river once on the Gretna Ferry at Mardi Gras time.  What fun it was for us kids to ride the canal Street ferry, which I did fairly often when I was in high school and was reluctant to drive across the big bridge and into the scary downtown area with all the traffic.

I hardly know anything about Marerro.  I think the huge subdivision Terrytown was near there.  I know Terrytown was near Oakwood Mall where we’d go for the full suburban shopping experience.  Lol.

 

September 2, 2024

When I was 8, I decided that I liked the name of Donna Reed’s husband on that show(Alex) and I said if I ever had a boy, I’d name him that.  I did, and I did!  Not sure if that’s the reason Alex was such a popular name in the 1980’s, but there were always at least 3 other kids in my kid’s class with the same name.

Your description of your suburban roots sound a lot like my suburban roots.

2 weeks ago

Is the neighborhood still a good area today?  My old house in Kansas City that I spent party of the sixties in has burned down and the whole neighborhood is a scary place.