Nearly 40 years.

I am booking a weekend in Melbourne to visit the Mesapotamia and Rome exhibitions and also to see the musical South Pacific for our 40th anniversary in October. Hard to believe we’ve been married for that long. We’ll drive down early Friday 5th October to catch up with Evan, then Sat morning to see the Rome exhibition, Sat afternoon South Pacfic and Sunday the Mesapotamia one. A full weekend.
I’m lucky we have similar tastes, although husband probably could live without seeing South Pacific, although he did enjoy Singing in the Rain when it came to Melbourne.
M finally bought an iPad last week. I find it too small and prefer my laptop, but he’s happy with it. I also signed him up to Facebook so he could keep up with our extended family here and in Scotland. I wish I could find my US cousins on Facebook, but seeing as their name is Smith, not much chance of finding them!
Evan has moved into a house, sharing with 4 other people. I’m glad he moved as it may help him to move on from losing his girlfriend last year. After she died, he went back to living in the same place and it must have been full of memories of her. Being a shift worker, he spends a bit of time alone and I worried about him. But now he’s sharing with 4 trainee nurses who probably work shifts too. At least he thinks they are nurses. No idea if they’re male, female, or a mixture. But I feel much better knowing he’s with others.
My aunt in Melbourne is lingering on, but there’s not much hope for her. The only positive is she is not in pain. She’s my mum’s sister and the last of her family. A sad time for my cousins.
Melissa and Luka are thinking of moving to Jindabyne, which is in the snowy region of NSW. They were talking about buying a house, but I said they should rent there for a full year and then make up their minds. They love snowboarding, but spending odd weekends and weeks there in winter is not the same as living there all year round. So that’s their plan in the future. Sometime next year. The only problem will be a job for Luka in a small town. That will be hard to get.
About 18 months ago my hair changed virtually overnight. I’ve waited since then, trying to tame it and hoping it would revert to normal. But it looks like I’m stuck with soft, floppy hair that just wants to lie around doing nothing. I’ve lost most of the natural wave I had, so I’ve decided to bite the bullet and have it permed, just a soft perm. Next Monday is the day and I don’t know if I’m looking forward to it or not! It surely will be better than the uncontrollable mop I have now.
Winter is hanging on here, refusing to go. We had a turn of really nice weather up until a few days ago and I noticed some trees out in bloom around town. But it’s back to cold and rain again. Soon be spring though.
Husband is still in pain from the fall he took in Melbourne. He has a soft tissue injury to his chest. I guess it will just heal in time. He has another doctor’s visit on Monday and I think they’re doing another test of some sort to check everything is ok. Hard to know how sore it is though, as he does not tolerate pain of any kind without lots of moaning. I have to remind myself to be more sympathetic, as I have a high pain threshold and his is nonexistent.lol
OK I’m off to read some favs.

Bye….

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I think I would enjoy South Pacific. I was disappointed in the Singing in the Rain production I saw. The exhibits do sound good. I think renting for a year is a good idea. Sometimes the places we visit are not the same when there full time.

August 16, 2012

I wonder why your hair has suddenly changed? Very odd!

August 16, 2012

Another menopause mystery…why does hair change? Women experience so many body changes in a lifetime! Glad to hear Evan will be around others. This generation seems to be too isolated to me. RYN: I would like to hear ONE political ad that doesn’t bash the other person, but just says what they want to accomplish and how they intend to pay for it. And yes, you only have two weeks of it, don’t you?

August 16, 2012

Oh…geez…I really AM losing it…HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, GIRL!!! As I tell Papa Blue, “Another year of not killing my husband.” 🙂 RYN: Yes, and I wonder if the non-socialization is going to add to issues like depression and acting out in mass murders. Young people don’t look at other people much, I’ve noticed. I think part of it is shyness, but if they always take the easy way out, how will they ever grow into a mentally healthier mindset? I worry.

August 17, 2012

Yes, I’d be happier with Evan living in shared accommodation. I hope it helps him move on. Have a lovely time in Melbourne. I still find it a pain of a trip although it’s much quicker than it used to be. May be heading that way myself next weekend.

August 18, 2012

Hope you have a great time celebrating your 40th anniversary. We celebrated our 47th earlier this year. I said to my wife, “Wish it was my 47th birthday I was celebrating.” She said, “I wish it was too!” That woman is just too damn smart! lol Sorry about Evan’s girlfriend. There are no words to soften a blow like that. RYN: Maybe I should make my own t-shirt? <{:0)

August 19, 2012

Wow, that’s incredible, happy 40th!! 😉

August 21, 2012

RYN: Maybe problem brothers get spread around so no one person has to take on all of it? 🙂