* What Does An Orgasm Feel Like For A Man?

My opinion?? WoW… You are “spot on” as the other side of the pond would say. Love the thoughts at the end… Our biggest sex organ?? Our brains…. Gawd, you made me proud to be over that middle 40’s hump!!! lol *hugs*

Wow! More moremoremoremore. LOL That was great. Well written and expressed. I have been reaching that point in my life as a women. Realizing that losing weight isn’t going to be done for him, but for me. For my health and self confidence alone. Any man that loves me, finds me attractive as I am, will love me as I am. And will love me more for my hard work in bettering myself. This is good.

I especially got something from your 6 comments at the end. Several spoke to me personally at this time in my life. Thank you so much. I think I really needed to read this today. If you don’t mind I am going to refer some of my favorites to your diary and may eleborate on some of these 6 ending statements in my next entry.

I’m only half way through… but I MUST say: THANK YOU! You are saying everything I’ve realized in the last few months. And you are saying it soooo much better!

well I may not have hit 40 yet lol.. but fantastic entry 😀 well said x

I had no idea you’d try (and mostly succeed) to describe a male’s orgasm… I think the description isn’t enough… I just need to watch (make) several more and then I’ll cum to my own conclusions! Oops! I mean “come to my own conclusions.” Thank you. I’m off for a delicious day of daydreaming about the big O, now…thank God it’s not a week day!!

You have set me to thinking… And shortly I might begin typing. It’s that sort of thinking… I was just telling the lover… for me, it’s like stealing orgasms. That’s what I like to do to men. Maybe I’ll tell ya’ll more…

Ho-leeeeee Shite man! Will you marry me?! Hell, forget that, will you just keep writing like this?! Yes, women truly come into their own at 40. I’m only six months into this but I’m realizing it more every day!

Hello, I come to your diary by way of ‘astrugglingheart’s’ diary. 🙂 Very good writing. I’ll be back to read more ….ummm…after the cold shower!!!

As I’ve said in the past….I’ve GOT to learn not to ready your entries while at work. I can’t go take a shower…though I need one ~wink~ Your right on as always Nunz. I thought I knew what was was in my 20’s (through sorely mistaken) So far I’ve loved every minute of my 30’s and new found confidence. And I’m soooo looking forward to my 40’s.

Also…..”We are habituated to listen and chose our ego. It takes real work to unlearn that.” Is something I continue to work on daily 🙂

Very well written entry. Gives me so much to look forward to when I reach my 40s. I realize more everyday that I have to do things for me and not for others and by doing that I find a true happiness.

The whole section on “older” women made me feel, well, rather good actually. I like your perspective. The rest of it, well, now is not a good time for me to read this. You are drawing Sheet Music out from her cave. It is a soccer weekend! No time for a little afternoon nookie which is what I am craving now.

Soooooooooo, you busy tonight Nunzio? *winks* =)

RYN: Mmmmmmmmmmm……Oh it’s “working”…..it’s just not helping the situtation! 😛

RYN: Hahahaaa…. Though I’d love for him to do so, Ricks a bit more conservative than that still. He’ll be intimidated enough just from the pocket rocket the girls got me. 🙂

ryn- Do I have to pick just one? I’m quite adventurous and have all the time in the world…. =)

ryn~Yes, I think between the two of you, I could get stirred up. Did you read The Write Man’s story about the woman in the purple dress? (Yours truly)

ryn- Ahhhh, you’re underestimating me. That’s good, I love a challenge. Saddle up. =)

🙂

What I *meant* was that I felt needed to experience a few more from MY end of the spasm… I like that. And I also *meant* that I thought maybe I could describe it from MY end as well… So, DR. Bubba will do HER best to tell YOU what SHE experiences when YOU MEN fill ‘er up!! How do ya like that?? ;-D

I have found that since I’ve moved past my early thirties and working on my latter ones, that I am becoming more and more who I always thought I was. Needing someone else has never been a big thing in my life, but recognizing that all I need is within me is. The power of this age far supercedes anything I could have hoped for – and it draws them like moths to a flame. And I love it.

Referred to you by Principassa Pollyana….All I could do was nod through this entire entry……….of course until the mind movie starting running and then I was well…errr…ummmmmm………recalling this very same scenario between me & my husband. Gonna send him this way & see if he feels the same. Write on, my new fav!

Oh, and BTW- check out my front page- I think you’ll find I totally agree with your take on ‘women of a certain age’.

My God…that was YOU in my bed last night!

Well done.

100th entry, huh?? Yea for you :o) ryn: Yep, the next month that starts this coming week. On the 6th… The interviwer went on vacation. :o/

hmm… nice ; )

But it is unfair… because it’s the women who always get hurt. men are not emotionally invested if they are lying and only looking for a physical fix. And the only reason that they feel they have to do that, I would guess, is because they run the risk of not getting any if they don’t. Women are actually interested in the other person if they are going to become intimate… and, generally,

they are interested in that person for who they are, not the sum of their body parts. if I just wanted to get off, I could handle that myself and quite nicely, lol. anyhow, lol, my point of view is that it is A LOT of time and energy to invest that much in another person and, I understand that men are different in that respect, but I would hazard a guess that most, if not all, men are well aware

of the fact that women are wired differently. So therefore, to misrepresent their intentions, IS a shitty thing to do, because, based on their knowledge of women, it is intentionally hurting another person due to manipulating what works, to their own advantage. All I’m saying is that that they need to play a fair game. there is no need to lie. If men want sex… be clear about it. then

the woman has the option of saying yes or no based upon clear facts. There are some women that will go for that. To appear caring, interested, invested, etc. is only misleading and therefore the equivalent of a lie. I’d rather hunt deer. At least they make sense (logical), despite being different. ; ) (and no, am not being argumentative… I didn’t want you to take my resonse the wrong

way… I actually do respect and am interested in your opinion, which I guess is why I’m responding with mine… curious what you’d have to say…) Thanks for the links btw. the first one, I’m quite familiar with this week (I have a psych test on Tuesday, lol). and from your other two entries… *nods*… I can agree with much of that. I do like nice guys btw… I think my problem

is that I keep giving the benefit of the doubt and hang on too long because I hate to think that someone is stringing me along. And so I get hurt. Can you answer me this?… WHY on earth would a man stick around in a situation that he isn’t interested in pursuing? especially when the woman has given every indication of walking away if he’s not interested… it’s an easy out. What on earth

is the point of that? I think the thing that bothers me the most about this kind of behavior as a whole, or how I interpret it, is that it ‘feels’ as though men don’t see women for who they are at all… I don’t want to feel like I don’t matter. I wouldn’t put up with that from my friends, let alone a man. …I want to be special to ‘someone’… I think that’s what makes

love worth it. *disillusioned*

My best is on display.. I tried… Maybe you are right though.. maybe we should consult the video of the game for a play by play analysis… yours or mine?? 😉

DZ recommended that I read you…now I see why.

Hott!! Very hott! i loved you describing what was happening and what you were feeling at that point!! Very pictureable…*lol*

Found you randomly. You’re quite the writer. But you’ve left me feeling a bit more depressed than I already was. I’ve got how many more years before the sex is good? 😉

You my dear have left me completely speechless. I quoted some of this entry in my own diary….just, wow.

oohh mercy! so where do you live again? LOL no really very well written and very much a homerun for where i am in my life atm *applauds* i was gonna ad this to the readers choice but im not sure you wouldnt get banned for the language.. not that i minded but well you know some people /shrug

ryn: eastern daylight time. thanks for the notes… *smiles*

“I run my one hand into your hair and pull your head back roughly as I simultaneously drive my cock deep into you. My other hand pressing down on the small of your back, now moves to your hips, to your breast, grabbing, clutching, pushing … FUCKING you” Outstanding. The advice to women is well said too, but not near as interesting. 🙂

rynrym: i figured as much so i didnt but the thought is there :))

very well put.

While I certainly enjoyed this entry – as I do all of your entries – explaining what an orgasm feels like to a man is a bit like explaining the color blue to a blind person. Well, they tried that in the movie Mask, and I really wasn’t convinced (Eric Stoltz or no Eric Stoltz). However, having already seen the color blue, I suppose an explanation to me of what blue looks like would be tainted for>>

I am thinking of what I see blue is when I hear Rocky describe blue to someone who has never seen it. That said – I don’t think I could really understand what an orgasm is for you, although it’s sure fun reading you try 🙂

A) Are those Angelina Jolie’s lips? F*ck me, man. They look plump and juicy enough to be! B) I now understand the concept of how a shaft can be violated. I’ll try to violate my husband’s member and report back how he likes it. C) WHAT wickedly dirty things DID SHE SAY? You see, I cannot do this effectively! I need someone to TELL ME what these woman say!!! D) I get…. (cont)

(cont) the concept of the not being able to sink deeply enough into her. THAT I can understand, I think, from a man’s point of view. Because WE can’t be violated deeply enough. All in all, a dirty ride, Nunzio. Thank you for responding to my query with such clarity and thank you for the violation visuals (though I care not for this pool in my chair). Happy? I’m blushing.

I learned after my divorce and a heartwrenching relationship, that only I could make me happy. I act upon a philosophy that you expressed. Need is not a strong enough tie for any relationship, and is actually the enemy of healthy, loving interactions. I knew I liked you for a reason. *wink*

Ryn: Don’t you ever call me a housewife again…unless you REALLY mean it.

Oh. MY. GOD!!! Surfed over from Madam Sassy Pants’ place…Quite glad I did, this is F-n AWESOME!!

Ryn: You’re right. All of you have been right. I was concerned because she was scheduled to have a C-section (which doesn’t take as long) AND because he was supposed to be here. This wasn’t the normal case of “Woe is me, he didn’t call so I’m not in his thoughts.” Thank you for the reminder though.

This was in my diary 12/03. The other diary. http://www.opendiary.com/entryview.asp?authorcode=D199113&entry=10007&mode=date

Come on baby. Shock the little girl who just survived the “Worst Hurricane in History” hunkered down in a cement block room with 6 crazy people (not by my choice)..while the fear of one lunatic,convinced him to tote a tommy gun strapped to his shoulder,and once tripped into me. We could see the bay when the 16ft rise was warned of…within an hour. One kid wanted to jump me. Come on…speak!

Well, Raspberry Vine, (I’d note you directly but you’re private) I’d say, with those experiences, you’re virtually, unshockable! I, and the rest of the country are so shocked and empathic to the experiences you and others have gone through, that I think you will see massive positive responses from the rest of the nation that will exceed the negative ones you’ve experienced. God bless,

ever thought of putting out a book?

ryn: I got the book bec. you mentioned it years ago. Thanks for the link.

Of course I would, thats why i suggested it!!! and all my cute little 19 year old friends too!! HA HA anyway, you’re right about us young girls trying to act confident, the problem is, those superficial external things is what makes us confident, its what makes us happy. When we know we look good, we feel good and we get KINKY.. lol

lmao!!! thats funny. Yeah the way I see it is “I dont aim to please, I aim to tease!” anyway, you should write an entry about how hot us 19 year old girls are, i feel left out! MUAH *wink*

RYN: You have no clue what I’m up against, LOL.

I don’t have access? What’s the big idea posting a private entry. LOL. Kidding. Kidding!

RYN: we girls gotta stick together. 🙂

wow that was long, and hot but the picture on ur front page speaks for your passion. it’s SO beautiful!

here’s a 40-something thank you.

I still want to f*ck a hot woman at 40, 50, 60+ and not a fatass.

“Whew!” (Fans herself and opens all the windows after putting her vibrator away) That was quite the entry! I’ve always wondered what it must feel like for a man. I felt they had to be MUCH better since ONE usually exhausts a man ( yes, I am that woman who patiently waits for the “REVIVAL” Ahem. Bring on seconds!) RYN – thanks for your kindness, my friend will be missed.

How did I miss this entry?! At 26, I had it all going on,spent $$$ on my “look” and remember a doctor I worked with telling me that he only dates women over 45. I said you have to be nuts!! He said he’d take a woman with extra pounds any day, one who realizes a man is making love to her for what she brings to the relationship, her nurturing, maturity, warmth, love, etc. I was amazed

Now that I am 51 and have some gentle crow’s feet, cellulite, stretch marks and extra pounds, I have men hitting on me all the time… much more so than when I was young. I work with a few gals in their 30’s that tell me I need to bottle my mojo – my bf tells me I am gorgeous (not even close!) but he thinks so, thinks young women all look the same and claims a woman does not get radiant until she

lines on her face, a few flecks of gray hair, “mature hands”….and that air of self acceptance. He is a college prof and said it doesn’t take much to be attractive when you are young… but to be a beauty at 50 shows how you lived your life and cared for yourself, accepted yourself and how you view a partner in your life. Who knew? I certainly had no clue until I divored two years ago!

Well hurrray for aging gracefully. I must say, I have never felt beautiful until I had a partner look at me with adoring eyes, not despite, but because of the years this body, this face, have seen. Only eyes as old as mine, can be this full of love. No kidding. Thanks.

hi…found you by accident, and wandered thru your posts just a little bit…this entry makes me quite happy to be an “older woman” of 45…and yes, we DO know what we are doing…smiling…~the feline~ 😉

Just found this on RC. Very good entry. I enjoyed reading it.

Yeeeeeaaaargh. Holy wow. This is … ah, yeah. I have to send this to Hotboy, say “DO THIS.” Good to hear it from a man’s point of view, and preach right ON about confident women.

Random* Well now, that was quite interesting!

Gonna go stick my head in the freezer now. Thanks much. 🙂 Be well,

One element of a male orgasm that women might be able to sense through verbal communication is this: When a guy is on the brink of climax, there is an element of something similar to the loading of a shotgun. You can feel an apparent void being created for the so-called bullets to be inserted, and it is only then that a guy is ready to climax thunderously.

This sensation becomes apparent just before driving for the goal line, when a guy senses himself to be as erect as can be, it is as if he can feel the empty chamber being actually loaded, and within an instant comes the fabled “point of no return”. That is merely the technical stuff. The most ideal environment is when with a partner who is enjoying herself.

Love this. Can’t even express how much I love this.

OH you dirty boy… I love it.. Just love it.

That growling beast.. I’d just love to meet him.. and maybe get a little violent.. (the biter would get bitten)

I think I’ve reached that level of sexual comfort despite my mere 30 years. 😉 It’s what many say they find so sexy about me. I am overweight, but I am well-kempt, sassy, sexual and not afraid to lose myself in the moment. If one doesn’t abandon him or her SELF, then the experience is always lacking. This was fascinating and arousing… thanks for writing it. 🙂

Oh right, but I came here to tell you that I love the picture on your front page. 🙂

FABULOUS!

Well…ok? *laugh*

Awesome entry!! It is men like you who make being a woman like me soooo very much fun. Because we KNOW when we’ve *got* you – you make it so readily apparent. One sidenote: I find it ironice that the blonde on her knees on the couch is: A) maybe 30; B) skinny enough to count her ribs; and C) HAS FAKE TITS!! Past that, great entry!!

Dammit – I spelled “ironic” wrong in that note.

I could read this over and over- as I have for the second time around- My opinion now- where have you been all my life? Muahs!

no worries it still a good read the second time around 😀

Mmmmmmm I enjoyed this just as much as the last time I read it 🙂 Now I’m all hot n bothered…..GREAT!

very delicious. but oh so unfair. you just directed me to this entry because you KNEW i would read the whole thing, and yesterday i said how much i am missing sex. you are a teaser! seriously, what you say about women is similar to what i said–that we have to be brave enough to let go of the shallow attention to really become ourselves without the distraction of trying to staythe pretty young shell. and also seriously, what you wrote above is not porn, nunzio. it is beautiful and sexy and hot. you have a sexy way with words that brings the feelings of good, hot, exciting lovemaking alive. that is not porn. the only thing that would make the above hotter, is if it was from a man who loved me, writing it to me… and the times that i have opened emails from my lover with sexy writing like this about our lovemaking have just made me more in love and lust and all of those feelings that are part of a rich deep relationship. that is my weakness. word guys. and as a last note. that entry of yours that stirred up the OD “pot”? i was sad for you at how devalued i felt as “you” when i read it. that is the feeling i remember. i

know it was a long time ago, and i am just recalling my general reaction, but i felt sad. i guess the dialog triggered for me feeling worthless and nothing, and i turned away in extreme sadness. exactly the sadness i felt when reading my book recently and suddenly coming upon such hurting. close the book. perhaps if i went back and read it, i would not see the same. but without doing that, it just remains to me a murky question about you and your own deep feelings about yourself. i probably will go back and read it, just to put my mind at ease that my impression of it is not totally slanted by the stuff i was going through at that time… while on that subject (sex) i will say that it is my judgement that your profile picture is arrogant. that your desire to display that picture overrides the rights of a 14 year old girl coming on OD to write about having a crush on the boy who sits in front of her… her rights to stay innocent and not see people fucking because you happened to write an entry right before hers. with a lot of care and respect,