Tentative plans

Laurie has agreed to go into a nursing home for the physical rehabilitation they offer…probably for about 30 days.  We’re working on getting that into place.  Then, after that, she wants a week at the house.  I don’t blame her for that.  Then, she’s going to "turn herself in" as a drug abuser to the local mental health organization and seek help with the drug abuse.

It appears I will not be going to my sister’s house, not to get away from Laurie, anyway.  I might find a way down there while she’s in the rehab place, so I can spell my sister with her kids.  That was part of the plan, anyway.  

For my friend I mentioned in the last entry….please think about it.  I’m only asking a friend to be supportive of my decisions, whether she likes them or not.  That’s all I ask.  If you feel it’s beyond you to do that, then I guess, for the time being, we shouldn’t talk, because right now, my world is circling my wife.  When I know she’s ok, I won’t need the support anymore, and seems like to me we can talk again.  I don’t WANT to lose a friend.  Likewise, I don’t want someone sounding like my sister, saying, "Do it my way or I can’t talk to you."


Love to all, especially the friend above,


Jack

 

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May 19, 2010

best of luck, love