My Birthday 11-3 & The Day After
My birthday was yesterday and truth be told it was ok. My mom & grandmother came over for dinner, my grandma made a cake and then we went to late night prayer at church.
Today was a different story.
I have told my husband since I met him that I don’t like to be the center of attention & I really hate surprises. Well he chose to ignore my feelings and invited people over today for a surprise party anyway.
This was bad for a few reasons:
#1. I just had surgery last week. I look & feel like crap.
#2. My house is a mess and they didn’t clean it up. We just bought this house recently so some people had never seen it before and I was so very embarrassed.
#3. I told him that I didn’t want anything & he did it anyway!
Now he is mad cause I’m mad.
What should I say or do????
noni angelique
You should be honest. Tell him how you feel. Did you appreciate that gesture at least? If so, tell him, but also tell him why it upset you, what you wrote above. I’m sure he was just trying to do something good for you, people don’t throw suprise parties just to upset people. =)
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