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So I’m “healing” they say. To do so, I’ve been told that I have to stop seeing what they all did and see my part in it all.

It’s hard to. Hard to find happiness in another’s happiness. It’s seems kind of stupid to me to somehow make the one who more or less destroyed me, the victim. Hard to be happy for her,because she seems happy now when it came at the price of all of mine. I lost pretty much everything and everyone so she can have everything and everyone.

Now I’m told to look at it through her and other’s eyes. See what I did. Justify what they did.

So this is what I do now. I’m starting to hate me too.

Happy at Home

Nope, I would definitely not try to justify what she did. She had an affair, broke up a family, ruined a man’s life and moved her new man in immediately after. There is no justification for that!!

strawberry jelly

Maybe you didn’t have a role, maybe she was the only one not honoring her vows?

Dandelion Tea

You don’t have to be happy for her. Your feelings are yours to feel and nobody can dictate that. It just helps you if you look at your role in your marriage and know you are human and made mistakes. She gets to own her stuff, but you need to see yours. Not to be happy for her. It will eventually bring you to a place of some peace and less torment. A place of acceptance.