Confused

There are two guys that I like and they are both awsome guys. But my delima is that I don’t know which one I like more and so I’m torn. I have no clue what to do. I talk to both guys everyday. And they both know that I like them. It’s really hard cause they both have different qualities about them that I like. I just don’t know what to do.

In other News the father of the baby called me and told me that he was gonna give me money on Friday. Okay I’ll belive that when I see it. He all of a sudden wants to go to my ultrasound appoitment with me. Maybe he’s trying but I still don’t trust it. I know how he is. He dosen’t even pay child support on his two year old son from another mother of course. He never see’s his child. I mean I know that his ex live in another state but that dosen’t mean he can’t go out there and visit so he can see his son I mean come on now. So anyway this situation is very confusing as well. Cause I don’t know whether to say okay he finally wants to be apart of the baby’s life or what dose he want out of all of this. I mean in the whole 41/2 almost 5 months I’ve been pregnent he didn’t care but now all of a sudden he dose. What the heck am I supposed to think?

k here is ur answer really it’s a toss up b/c the father could have been freaked out bout the pregnancy at first n now he has come around r he could jus b tryin to save face honestly i kno this may sound a bit cliche but it’s the truth listen to ur heart if u kno that u can trust him then do but if there is any doubt jus b cautious n till u can b sure hope that helps.

Raziel_X007223

July 18, 2005

Whatever the answer is, just know that the other one will definitely be peed at you…..So it more like pick your poison rather than the best choice..I suggest that you prepare for some more drama in the upcoming months… Raziel X

k maybe he does care n he jus doesn’t kno how to show it r maybe he doesn’t want to face his demons so he won’t confront the situation either way u jus have to let him figure it out b/c if u keep confrontin him he won’t listen these things jus take tyme. sry i can’t b much help

Wow*i*can*be*me

hey girly i dont know what to think about the whole father thing…. i know that my sisters ex wasnt there the whole 7 months she was pregnant and he didnt care that she was in the hospital for 2 months she was in the hospital or when the baby was in there for 3 weeks from being so early. then he wanted to be in babys life until he found out that my sister wouldnt get back with him and he wasgone

*c* she hasnt heard from his since. so just be careful hun guys can be totally jack@$$ *hugs* like the other girls said just careful and dont trust him right off take time and dont jump in to it all to soon! *hugs*

just listen to your heart but also listen to your mind and god he will point you in the right direction life is hard but with the right friends family and faith in god it can be easy

TotalTasha24/7

i really hope everything works out with the father… i dont think he knows what hes missing children can be great good luck ***hugz***

It sounds like this guy wants to be a part of the baby’s life (he’s got 50% of his genes invested), but he’s also got a bad track record. Almost everyone deserves a second chance, but exercise caution and maybe talk to him (not argue) about your concerns. Once that’s done, if he pulls out, it will show where his heart really was. The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Take care. 🙂

StephFoshow

July 19, 2005

Ya it’s understandable why you wouldn’t trust him, I wouldn’t either… I’d probably give him once chance, let him know that he’s only getting one, and if he doesn’t come through, then that’s it

i dunno what to tell you about this other than just do what you feel you need too regarding the father and your baby. as far as the other two guys, yeah it’s cliche but really follow your heart. thanks for the note. take care