The seedy side of life

I work for the government…just that phrase sets some people of but it’s a good job. I work in legal services. What has become obvious  over the past while is the number if offences of the viler type that are coming through the door.

Sexual assaults.. .under age sex…voyerism…pornography and images if a most unseemly nature seem to have explodwd. Not just the ones from ages ago where the victim has gained the courage to face both the actions and the alleged perpetrator but revently. Not just the internet although helps spread the foul stuff more easily than the mail ever did. I mean adults almost invariably male controlling what kids of any age…the youngest I can recall was 8…to perform or watch sexual acts.

Adults mainly male who seem rinthink that touching groping otherwise placing their hands on and in a female who may or may not have been drinking is ok and then deny they ever did it or the woman led them on. Those who plant cameras to get a thrill from watching people go to the toilet or even to just look up dresses and skirts. And those who just love walking around with IT all hanging out.

Really as adults I wouldnhave hoped people could control female. Alas it seems that blokes lead with their pricks and miss out on using the most important muscle…the brain.

And for me I am sad to say one gets used to reading about woman x got drunk and laid down man y thought he could loosen the underware and finger fuck or more.

Yes one gets unnurr3d to the activities but I hope I never ever get used to the way the victim…male or female or trans…will be left.

The saddest part of all is this is almost seen as a part if life and growing up.. .well no it is not. It is not never was and never will be acceptable.

To the victims my support to the perpetrators my expectation of recovering and that the offence us never repeated.

I do live in hope but somehow I seem to just be getting further and further away from being a human being

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March 27, 2018

I work for the government too. I have a case load of mostly mental health people. I see a lot. It is very sad & I am pretty immune to the things I know about as well.  I sometimes feel like I lack empathy. I didn’t used to, but I’ve bern at my job for 17 yrs & it’s tiring & mentally draining.

March 27, 2018

@disfiguredclown inhear you. before the government i was a psych nurse…and now what many see as odd or outlandish i see almost as normal. still have empathy just a different type

March 27, 2018

@neil I hate that my @ is disgiguredclown btw 😣 It’s the name of a song & what I first named myself here. Wonder if I can change it (?)

I can’t really say that I’m not empathetic. I definitely care. I think it’s just I rate people’s problems & compare how “bad” you are in regards to how “bad” someone else is. I need to fix that.

March 27, 2018

I also hate autocorrect 😃 DisFIGUREDclown. Geesh. Lol