If I Had an Affair…
…would it be such a bad thing?
I mean there is no family or home to break.
We have a prenup so I wouldn’t really loose much if anything and we are not legally married so it would just be Company Law that he could argue on me. You know since we have lived together for so many years and overhead expenses have kinda been shared, although I have pretty much carried them all most if not all of the time.
our living arrangements would be an issue. He has no place to live outside of the flat that we live in that I own.
Wouldn’t it be great to feel someone actually make a fuss about me. Wouldn’t it be great to be with someone who you always want to make an effort for? You actually want to look good for, do things for…
I find myself now reading a new Unlimited Kindle Romance Book every 2 days. I am wanting to get lost in fiction stories of people finding love and having their happily after because my reality is really lonely and tiresome.
Might be time for a change. Don’t fear it, embrace it. 5 years from now, looking back, would you wish you had done something now?
Hey @lookydavid! There are so many things I would have done differently if I was still 32.
– don’t think I would have got married
– would have had the Bariatric op then already
– wouldn’t have lived my life following my heart (I hate that means I wouldn’t be with my husband because I love him. And I know you are thinking why don’t I end it, and I the simple I answer is that I do love him and I am happy with his at times just the crust of things are really hard and I don’t want to be alone)
– would have gotten a degree/diploma
okay I am gonna stop as this is going to go on forever. But basically there is a lot that I would change. And I can be happy that I am in process of enrolling to get a degree in manual and computerised accounting (again) just getting some paper work certified.
@ncumisa i remember being in a relationship with the mother of my son, while i loved her very much and tried very hard to make it work, i had to accept the fact that it simply wasn’t going to work. We were friends for quite a few years before we got together, we were just never single at the same time. Five years have passed and i still love her and care about her, now we are friends like we used to be before we got together and had a child. We always have eachother’s backs and are raising our children as a team. Right when it first ended, it was a pretty ugly situation for about a year, but it kept gradually getting better as time went on. Your story reminds me of when i was in that relationship. I hope you can find the strength to do what’s right for yourself, no matter what that may be. 🙏🏻
I am happy you find that peace and we’re strong enough to do what was right for you and your son and his mother.
I think what is holding me back is being worried what he would do. His family is not very reliable and able to assist him, he isn’t able to support himself properly. I have tried to call it and suggest we go our separate ways but he asks for a month of so to sort himself and then during that month all just settles and I give in.
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