I Don’t Think I Can Believe Him…
…but when you love someone… 
He has gone to one before and he said that he didn’t believe in someone entering his mind and he didn’t feel right giving someone the power to control him. So after the 2nd session he refused to go back, 
Yeah so we went and he has gone to 1 on 1 sessions but what help did that do?
he just needed to learn how to control himself.
apparently he hasn’t been 100% honest with the therapist, he has told her just enough for her to know there is a problem, but not enough to know just how bad it is.
It is the 21st century, everything can be done online, on an APP…who was I kidding by gloating about having them!
…so this morning I gave him his cards back!
I think he probably does love you but the alcohol addiction pull is just so strong that he’s lost control of it. I think he puts you down to try to make himself feel better, like you are the problem. Of course he’s saying he will get help now…he doesn’t want you to leave. Probably the only thing that may help him is a rehab center where he absolutely cannot get his hands on alcohol. Has he been to a rehab before? I’m sure you’ve said but I can’t remember.
A few years ago, before we got married, I had kicked him out and his cousin took him in and then put him in a rehab. I don’t know if I can truly believe in that rehab, but anyway a about a month and a half later we got back together, go engaged a lil over a year later and married few months a year later.
I don’t know what will help with him.
I do think you are right, about him using any lines to get me change my mind about him going.
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I’m sorry that you are going through things like that.
😘
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