Crappy Ending of an already Crappy Weekend….

Lying in my bed and watching ‘The Maid’….about an hr ago my husband relocated to the bedroom so while I have Andie McDowell being all hippie and reminding me of the mom in ‘Firefly Lane’…my husband is snoring….

I am just getting into the 2nd episode when I hear him coughing…and then he throws up….in bed.

Yesterday I just cleaned the bedroom and changed the linen, which now has his vomit on it.

I jump out of bed to get him a bucket….and then a wet cloth and towel….and then I begin to change the linen….AGAIN!! let’s not forget that it is now 20h00….and the last thing I want to do is clean house….

So in goes the washing again….sheet….duvet cover… I don’t have clean linen to change the bed, so I am camping out on the couch in the lounge and I am giving him the spare bedroom with the bed that I hate.

While I am preparing the spare bed for him he has to go on about how he is embarrassed and I have the audacity to ‘shame him and be upset. He blames the sushi we had for supper…which he insisted on and I am fine after having it too….if it is the sushi then I am sure it is all him trying to be smart and setting his mouth on fire with the Wasabi he had a mouthful of….but I am sure it is his stomach telling him no more alcohol….but hey what do I know?

While watching “The Maid”, I seriously felt some connection to Alex. I wish I had the guts to run away….but why should I run when this is my FUCKING FLAT?

This afternoon I made some hints about him leaving…and he brought up how he is Zulu and “owns” me….how he can have multiple wives but I belong to him and he is going nowhere and neither am I. He then goes on about how I kicked him out 5 years ago and how he had to sleep on the street because he had no where to go…hence why he works so hard now….so he has money for himself and won’t need me anymore. He actually said while I was driving back from fetching him in Gangsters’ Paradise that he needs me now but soon when he has his ID and Passport sorted out he will get his own car and won’t need me anymore.

What?? Like What The Fuck?

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October 10, 2021

I’m sitting here asking those questions, too. WTF? Is he always like this?

October 10, 2021

@caria – lately yes.