Clomid users of OD? A little help?

Arg.

Is there ANYONE out there who can help me find info on Clomid and success rates for women who don’t currently ovulate on their own?

Because it’s been, oh, YEARS since I’ve ovulated and/or had af show up more than twice a year, this is the next step for us.

I go back on the 18th and she’s leaving it up to us. We’d talked about waiting til the end/beginning of the year but I’m wondering if the odds are that it may take several cycles if we shouldn’t just go ahead and start it now.

I’m just so frustrated, I’d normally be able to look this junk up myself.

It’s hard to find people who REALLY understand, rather than just saying they do to make me feel better…Yes we have 4 between us.

Do people really not do the math though? I had mine YOUNG. I don’t regret that, although I’ve said many times that if I could have been guaranteed to have the same kids, I’d have waited.

Now I’m realizing it’s a GOOD thing, maybe not the best situation, but a good thing I did.

Consider this: I was 23 when Dave and I started seeing each other. I’m 27 now.

Still nothing. In those 4 (almost 5) years I’ve been on bcp a total of 5 months.

Yes. Do the math. I haven’t ovulated in that long. Oh I could fiddle with my chart all I wanted back before af totally quit showing up, but I never ovulated.

So yes. We have 4 kids between us. That doesn’t mean we can’t want one together. And yes I do feel greatful, and yes, I feel for those who can’t or have a hard time getting pregnant with #1.

That doesn’t mean we’re any less worthy, or that our feelings aren’t as strong.

Ugh. anyway. rant over.

Can anyone out there help? 🙁