Happy Valentines day.

 

 

 

 Well.  It was .. something.  woke up to breakfast in bed.  It was awesome and very sweet.  Went to school. nothing exciting to report except my choir teacher likes to single me out.  In a good way, but i don’t have the best confidence so that’s something. 

picked up olive garden to go and headed home.

Came home to a voicemail from my mom.  called her back.  We got into an argument over my father again.  She’s coming over to babysit/see the kids since she hasn’t come around in a month on saturday and wanted to know if it was alright if dad came along as well.  He couldn’t even show up for her freaking birthday. No. He’s not going to come in and out of her life as he pleases just because he doesn’t want to see me.  Sorry. We’re a package deal.  fucking seriously? So  you’ll show up when i’m not around, but when it’s something big in her life he just isn’t going to be part of her life because i’m there? pussy.

 After an hour of that, A policeman knocked on my door serving me papers that the contract for my house is being cancelled due to an insurance issue.  They claim it was part of my contract, it is not.   They slapped me with over 2k in fines (lawyer fees, etc.) to pay in 60 days or I can move.

well, i’m moving.  And apparently quickly. 

and actually, after a day of being scared about it and stuff… I’m really excited.   No more frozen pipes or wood to worry about (we heat with wood), no more shoveling driveways and getting stuck.  No more yard to worry about.  No more outrageous electric bills.  … It’s going to be fantastic.  

 

 parents aren’t happy because they’ve been using my yard as storage.  And now they’re basically refusing to pay me back the money they owe me because they need it to get the stuff off my yard.  Which is awesome.

We watched a movie and cuddled and had a bit of an argument over stuff regarding the phone call.  Overall it was a high stress evening.  

i didn’t even get any. 
 

 

But actually, it was one of the better valentines days I’ve ever had.  

I hope yours was amazing.

Kid update:Little man is starting to get up on his hands and knees and rock!  and his front two top teeth finally came through!  he weighs 22.8 pounds and right on track for everything (still not sitting on his own or crawling but we’re close!), and lilly weighs 28.8 pounds and she’s 3 feet one inch tall, and crazy above her age range developmentally.

 they’re really growing up.  

I had to rocky lilly today.  We moved her from our bed to her room, and she started crying so i rocked her in my arms and she fell asleep.  I realized it’s probably one of the last, if not the last, time(s) i’ll ever do that. It’s bittersweet. 

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February 16, 2013

ryn aw thank you! sounds like your little ones are coming along wonderfully xx

I’m glad you had a good Valentine’s Day. P.S My last entry–I was very dumb doing what I did with Greyson, but I was very young, and it changed. I’m older now as my entries are from past journals. So don’t worry about that 😀 However, I wish I had your advice back then. ~Anna