TTC Update

So tired.
Just an update on my ttc status. Still trying. Just ending with AF, hoping every month that that would be the month. Still haven’t gone to a doctor because I want a female…although maybe James should get tested first. I mean I have no symptoms that would give the impression I am infertile…I’m usually on a 28 day cycle, sometimes 27 sometimes 29, (is that normal?), I haev very painful periods but not ALL the time…, sometimes I can feel myself ovulating (I could more when I was younger for some reason, but there is that occasional month that I feel it)….
James on the other hand has been smoking since he was 19 (he quit for two years in between that) and he’s 29 now. He’s a welder. Plus, who knows, he could have a narrow urethral (Yeah I spelled that completly wrong) and shouldn’t guys get tested first anyways? If it IS him, are we screwed? Does anyone know alot about male infertility?
Anyways just thought I would update on that. I haven’t quit. Even though alot of you prolly think I should considering our finacial status…but I don’t want to.

:o)