Is it still worth ttc?

Well I can’t find a suitable doctor to go to. James won’t quit smoking. We’re in the middle of tring to move and two months behind bills. My parents keep praying we won’t conceive. Is it still worth it? Should I make everyone happy and wait ten years, have a career,  no debt, and a house?
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September 5, 2006
September 5, 2006

I would make yourself happy. If the stress from moving and money is giving you doubts about whether to keep trying right now, then you could hold off on it. But if it’s just because of what everyone else says, ignore it. You’re the only one who knows what’s right for you.

September 5, 2006

na…ten years is too damn long..its your kid are they going to change its diapers and be up with it at 3 am??? i doubt it..so do what you want because in the long run its all on you…

September 5, 2006

tuffie. i think you should do what you think is right, go with your head and not your heart… the thought of stopping from TTC makes me sad tho.

September 5, 2006

Do what makes you, and your partner happy.

September 5, 2006

i dont think you should ait 10 yrs. but maybe until things get a little better.

I agree with Night swimming 😀 So I’m not going to retype it 😀 (Hugs)

September 6, 2006

I wouldn’t wait 10 years, but it does sound like you should wait a while *hugs*

you should wait until you’re mentally and financially ready for a baby. ignore what anyone else might think. (except of course james.) you are in control of your own life. no one governs over you to tell you when you should have a family. be strong girly.