Week 33
Holy hot, y’all.
When Duckie and I started talking about having a kid, I made it clear that I wanted a Spring or Summer baby. I’ve always hated having a December birthday – and not just because of the old "this is your birthday -and- Christmas present" junk. December birthdays are so limited (especially here in Wisconsin where there’s a good chance that a blizzard will leave you sitting at home by youself looking all sad with your party hat and blowey noise makey thing). As for fall, it seems like everyone we know has a birthday in fall. 5 in September alone!
Anyhow, when I found out that I’d be having a Spring baby, I was pretty pleased. I wouldn’t be super big during the really bad winter months and it wouldn’t be too hot during my last few months. WRONG! Well, the winter month thing was right – and it helped that it was a really mild winter. The Spring thing, though. It’s been like 80 degrees every day since like March 7th. Sure, 80 is nothing compared the 100-something temps I dealt with in GA, but I’m not used to those kinds of temps anymore. Oh, and it’s MARCH, dammit, not June.
So my feet decided this would be a good time to start swelling. Thankfully, I just bought some Teva’s and they arrived the day before my feet went nuts. I cannot fit into ANY of my other shoes. The Teva’s are adjustable by the toes and the heel, so yay for that!
I’m pretty tired of maternity clothes, too. If I want to pay less than $40 for a shirt (fuck you very much, Motherhood Maternity and Kohl’s), then I have to either find a regular shirt that’s meant to be loose and get it 1-3 sizes bigger than I normally wear or I can go to a thrift store. Both are pretty hit or miss, but I’ve found some really nice shirts this way. Now that it’s so hot, though, that first option isn’t so much an option anymore. My stomach and boobs are ginormous, but my waist has survived pretty well and normal shirts are just not meant for that. That leaves me with thrift stores. I think all the other pregnant chicks got to them before I did because there is absolutely nothing there for warm weather wear. So, I give in. I have to pay out the ass for some shirts that I can wear maybe 3-5 more months. Lucky for me, Duckie is on the ball and was looking at some stuff online while I was ranting about not having any clothes to wear this morning. We went to J.C. Penney and, tucked against a small wall in their plus size department, is a tiny maternity section. And they had some very reasonable prices. I ended up getting three pretty nice t-shirts for $30 and I think they’ll all still fit once I’m not pregnant because mostly, they’re just stretchy and t-shirts aren’t meant to be super tight anyway.
Did some crafting on Friday with Laura and Rachael (from work). I’m slowly getting Lily’s quilt done. Very, very slowly. It’ll be cute, but it won’t be very well made. Oh well, I’m a newb and this is the first time I’ve ever pieced a quilt together. Everything else has just been "cut a square, sew it to another square, repeat." I actually have to piece my squares for this one and, while I’m sure my cutting was accurate, my sewing seems to be leaving a lot to be desired, Mostly it’s because of the ruffled/gathered bits in the middle of the squares, but whatever. It’ll still be cute.
Duckie and I went to our Labor and Delivery class on Saturday. Instead of spacing it out over several session, it was just one 6 hour class. I was already familiar with a lot of the material since I’ve been reading about it, but there was some good info that was new to me. And it always helps to have other people around asking questions that you may not have thought of, but want to know the answer to. Mostly what I learned, though, was that I am getting an epidural the second they will let me have one. I’m a little disappointed that my hospital doesn’t offer walking epidurals, but I am pretty sure that I’ll survive with just a plain old, lay in bed and wait epidural. And absolutely no mirror.
We hung some art and whatnot in the nursery today and moved some stuff around that just wasn’t working. We also finally got a changing pad. Hurray. Now I just need a cover or three. We looked at a few diaper pails, but we think a trash can with a very secure lid will work better for us since we’re using cloth. We don’t really need or want each insert individually wrapped and sealed in a bag.
Blah blah blah. I really wish I had something to write about other than being pregnant. As it turns out, though, it’s not something that I can just ignore. 🙁
You will need at least 3 changing pad covers, at least that is what my experience says. I also know epidurals are amazing, and I wish I had gotten mine earlier because having to stay perfectly still through 4 very painful contractions (while the dr gave me the epidural) was agony.
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Heh, just like plus sizes it seems companies like to over charge because they have to use a little bit more material than “normal” clothes. I’m glad you were able to find a cheaper alternative.
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Omg. Try being pregnant in one of the hottest summers on record….through the whole.damn.thing. swelling and really uncomfortable. You’re almost done! Oh and I found the class we had pretty helpful.
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because god saw fit to give me disproportionately huge knockers, i’ve always had to buy shirts to fit the girls & not my stomach. so all my shirts have been loose in the belly area, meaning i could grow into them while preggers. then i got such a big stomach during pregnancy that it started to supersede my boobs, stretching the shirts. now (since i’ve not lost all the pregnancy weight) i’m left with shirts that are either too small or shirts that have been stretched beyond recognition. i didn’t buy maternity tops for the same reasons you haven’t, now i’m regretting it. as i’m finding that i’m needing them more post pregnancy than i did while being pregnant! & i don’t want to buy new clothes yet because i will lose this pregnancy gut, dammit. & the plan is to treat myself to a few pieces from old navy when we visit NC later in the year. in the meantime, i wait and fret. post-pregnancy’s a cold, cold bitch, man. & i TOTALLY agree about december babies. i was so upset when i realized i’d be having a baby in december. and three days before christmas, too boot? poor callum. we might be spending some of our christmases in the southern hemisphere so he can enjoy sunshine & warmth!
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oooooooh, and i’m glad you found the class helpful. about the epidural, i too, wanted a walking one, but the hosp didn’t do them. the good thing, though, was that i got one within 30 minutes of being admitted! i was only 4cm, too! it was brilliant. it lasted until i was 8cm when the damn thing fell out. (i kept having to turn on my side so they could do tests.) and the mirror thing hahaha. i remember seeing it when i was doing my birth plan. they also asked me if i would like to reach down and feel the baby crowning. uhm, no, k thanks. ha. suffice, i had no mirror & no stroking the baby’s head mid-delivery. gross. wayne didn’t even cut the cord. let the doctors be doctors, we say. ryn: will do!
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I can’t believe how close you are, it’s so exciting.
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So excited for you!! Glad you found some shirts at JC Penny. I know how hard it is to find shirts that fit. Being blessed with large bubbies I know how hard it is to find cheaper shirts to fit. I go to Goodwill a lot to find stuff. This weather is so unbelievable! I can’t believe what a mild winter we had. And now it’s getting super warm in March. That’s just weird!!
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Just giving you a heads up I sent you a package this morning. You’ll prolly have it on Monday 🙂
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RYN: I told you it was coming a while ago… and I just forgot. You’ll get a big laugh. 🙂
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