She better stay away…*EDIT

Today my MIL is taking care of Gianna and since yesterday she asked my hubby if she could take Gianna to my crazy ass SIL house today. Hubby told her yes because we knew that if we said no there would be some sort of drama!! Anyway i called my MIL a few minutes ago and crazy ass answered the phone, i quickly just told her to let me speak to my MIL. My MIL said “Gianna is fine, her aunt in holding her right now”. WHATEVER! I am not ok with it and I swear all the bad feelings i had for this girl came back to me..i don’t think it’s fair that she goes around physically and verbally abusing people and then blames it on some illness…yeah let me try that sometime. Also i don’t feel good about Gianna being near her after she admitted that she was jealous of her.
I don’t feel good about it and my MIL better not make this a habbit…

*EDIT* So Gianna seemed to have had a good time yesterday at crazy’s house, she was able to see her two cousins. MIL didn’t bring Gianna home till about 8pm and hubby went over to pick her up from MIL. When Anthony came back he asked me ” Do you think my sister is going crazy?” I said to him…”No, i don’t think so..sometimes i don’t know what to think anymore” First she had all this anger towards me and made up a bunch a fake BS about how i made her feel and what not. Then, she said that she felt anger since Gianna was born and had a harm time dealing with that.
I personaly think it could be a couple of things going on with her that have all caught up with her. Let me tell you what i think attibuted to her feeling like she does:
* This past year both her boys started to go to school..ALL DAY.
* She does not work and stays home all day
* Her husband got a new job and doen’t get home till about 9pm, so once again she is home all day.
* Her mother and father do not go visit her on weekends as much as they used to; due to their job schedules.
* She does not have any hobbies.
* She does not make/ have friends
* She does not work out or do any kind of physical activity
* She has always had a low self-esteem
* She had a miscarriage about 2 months before Gianna was born ( this is her second)
* Her mother has always babied her so much!!
* She grew up super sheltered.
* I don’t think she really knows how to be independent!

Anyway, i think she now has alot of time on her hands and stays home feeling sorry for herself. That’s great that she is admitting to how she feels but also DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!! If you don’t feel good, go and get checked…get some blood work done. Who knows maybe it could be perimenopause?? Also don’t sit at home feeling bad for yourself, look around you…you have a beatiful family who love you, you have a husband that has no problem with you not working ( even though we all know your ass needs to). Be happy with your blessings and try to undertsands God’s plan for you.
See this is also so weird to me beause she worked in a hospital before acessing patients who suffered with mental illness ( maybe she has been reading those books too much!
I’m sorry but i find it hard to feel bad or sorry for her…she is grown woman and she needs to deal with things like an adult!!
You don’t feel good, go and see a doctor ( sometimes meds are the best thing) You feel bad about yourself..do something, go workout or do something that makes you feel self-worthy!!
What more can i say..am i being too rough??