Lets start with step one…

So Anthony had his fisrt fathers day and it was not the best 🙁
We were suppose to go over to his moms for fathers days breakfast but were running behind and decided to just do lunch..well his mother was not happy about that at all.She was pissed and told Anthony not to worry about it and to go spend time with “his other family”..WTF, nice huh? Yeah i hit the jackpot when it comes to in laws..jeez!
Anyway,i went by my MIL house that evening to drop off a card for Gianna’s grandpa but they weren’t there..so i just left it at the front door.
Yesterday i called my MIL to see if they ahd recieved it and she acted so nice and said that my FIL loved it and so sorry that she missed us going over bla bla bla! Anyway she went on to say that she missed how we would all get together and that we need to do things for the kids. I thiught yes and all of this would not have happened if your crazy as daughter hadn’t turned psycho on me! But anyway, she went on to say how my SIL loves me and how she loves me and want to be a “family” again. I told her that i would love that, but that certian things have to be put out on the table and we can not pretend that certain thing were not done or said. She agreed with what i was saying and said that she woudl just like to do things for the kids.
Now, yes i still feel a bit upset about all the crap that my SIL put me through…but what’s most important are the kids! I want Gianna to get to know her cousins and spend time with them. In the past i had told Anthony that i didn’t want anything to do with his sister untill she sat down with me and we talked about why she did and said to me in teh past…but now i feel like it doesn’t even matter. I love my daughter to pieces and i just want her to be happy. I could care less what my SIL has to say now, what done is done and honestly no matter what she says will not change anything that happened. I just want respect and respect will be given back….
Lets start at step one and see what happens from that.