Life is Pain, Princess—

….Anyone who says differently is selling something.

I’m so upset at the moment. And it is a vicarious emotion. My life is reasonably settled, ticking along normally.

But when bad things happen to other people, it really hits home about how quickly things can change. How lucky I am with the life that I have.

My cousin’s $%^&*(*&$#$%^& husband took their 2 older daughters, and then had his lawyer call informing her that he was filing for divorce, and wanted custody of the girls.

1. If he was so worried about their “safety” with their mother, why not take the baby too?? (oh yeah, because he doesn’t like kids!!)

2. Be a freaking man and tell your wife you are leaving her, don’t lie and deceive and then have your lawyer call! WTF??

3. I just keep putting myself in her shoes. If my husband did that to me, I would HUNT HIM DOWN AND CUT HIS BALLS OFF!!

Anyway, I’ve got all this anger at this guy, and I don’t know him from Adam really. I’ve met him once, and he was a friend on facebook for a while, but I deleted him because all of his posts were either, whiney about the whole world being wrong but him, or crazy and self deluding. He has always given me the impression of being very self serving, but even for him, this is a new low. He’s even kept it on his facebook that he’s married and is saying things like “Hardest thing I have ever had to do, but it was the best decision to make” when all of my family is friends with him on facebook!! Next post is crap like “Hair styling class for Keira, such a good dad making that appointment!: WHATEVA!! You’re not a good dad, you’re a freaking KIDNAPPER hiding behind your lawyer. These girls NEED and LOVE their mom, and don’t deserve you to be putting them through this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bastard. He’s so lucky there is an ocean between us, or he’d be having this conversation with my fists….or my cricket bat.

LOL

*phew* good to get that out 😉

Spiritual Seeker

February 2, 2011

Yikes, what a jerk! Glad you can vent it out. I hope your cousin finds good help and love to move on from him. It’s not an easy thing.

LoverGirl

What the hell?! That guy is an idiot.

February 18, 2011

RYN: Oh yeah, I remember that weight loss thing we were talking about! How should we set it up? And I know I shouldn’t overthink about Charles. I need a new hobby. lol.

February 27, 2011

RYN: I love how hyped up you are about chocolate. lol. It’s awesome. I’ve never seen that site before. I still need to take a look at it, sorry things have been crazy lately. But I’ll look at it this week!

February 28, 2011

RYN: Aww, Stephanie! Thank you so much for telling me that. Makes me feel so good! 🙂 I am so glad to have found you, too. I do think of you as a friend. More of a sister, actually! I want to adopt you. 🙂 And sorry that we haven’t been able to talk online as much. Will keep trying!

kiwichatter

March 1, 2011

wow .. I popped on and left a note, then read this .. lol .. you vented good and proper.. he deserves to get the bat.. what a cad!!!

Miss Bliss

July 30, 2011

ouch! It breaks my heart when I hear about things like this. I hope this turns out as well as these things can. *hugs your cousin*