Learned a lot about an adorable young working girl

I accidentally discovered lots of personal details about a 20yo working girl and her uniqueness is comforting. 

While waiting for the photos in her ad to load, I happened to see the name on her photo account and the name was so unique that it led to a trove of information about her.  The young woman writes in well-spoken fashion and with a twist of feminism while she has applied herself to the world’s oldest profession by trade.

Clearly she has the education and aspirations to go somewhere beyond where she is in life, yet I sense a matter-of-factness in her choice to sell her sexual company to men.  Many adorable photos online speak as to her seeming innocent nature and she writes online of having known many of the self esteem issues shared by teenage girls everywhere.

The young woman tells of having left home during the middle of her senior year of high school and of having since been a stripper before what she calls "hoeing".  She even writes of having previously worked the streets in the red light district.

It is such a rare opportunity to read of a young, real-world prostitute talk so candidly about her life experiences to date.  When writing about her interest in feminism she first told of having once shunned the feminism movement while believing that things really weren’t so bad for women anymore.

She then wrote of her first penetrative sexual experience and of how her older boyfriend didn’t adhere to her change of heart upon discovering that she didn’t feel she was ready to lose her virginity.  He instead pinned her down while she just cried waiting for it to be over.  This same boyfriend resorted to calling her a ‘whore’ and a ‘slut’  – and guess what?  she stayed with him while mostly blaming herself for what had been the night she lost her virginity.

Like so many others she pondered why a man would treat a woman like shit if she didn’t deserve it.  The young woman later wrote of having discovered some bad men in her dating life and through it all she has maintained a very youthful glow and adorability.

She is under 5 feet tall and of mixed heritage and she has one of the more unique ‘ethnic’ names I’ve ever heard (one that easily isolates her in the vast realm of Google).  Various online photographs from her ‘real’ life show an adorably sweet face with eyes wonderfully innocent to complement a skin color which is delightfully uncommon in her area.  To no great surprise her look is at times dominated by ample bosom which tends to draw all eyes when perched upon a sub-5-foot woman.

The young woman’s facial features are considerably attractive and she seems very fortunate in that way.  Straightened  hair affords her another uniqueness by which to set-off her youthful appeal.

 Her personality as presented in the arena of online prostitution is at times brash and unapologetic but she does conduct her business in proper ways which are more typical of older and more mature women.   She stated once that she "finds sex to be meaningless unless a couple choose to make it mean something".  The woman tells of not feeling degraded, and that a year of her life isn’t going to have a giant impact on the bigger picture.

Another thing, her prices are very near to being the best the local market has to offer, for she is priced very reasonably, with a discount for daytime appointments as well.

The intuitive 19yo she was very recently wrote of having first put on a fake and overtly-sexy girl act for thinking that was what men wanted.  Upon noticing she wasn’t getting too many regular clients she opted to just be herself and sharing her authentic personality and tells of more and more men wanting to purchase her company.

 (to be continued… )

Almost as if I were her biographer:

(firstly, in reference to the very beginning (and to the middle of part one) of this entry, the young woman wrote that she hates  being told that her (real) first name is unique)

I’ve just compiled more detail from the young woman’s writing and she is remarkably well-spoken/written for a person of 20 years old who is the offspring of two substance abusers who raised her in a very poor environment.  She herself experimented with a number of drugs in her middle teens and was physically and sexually abused as a teen as well.  Sadly the young woman reports of having been raped twice (one was that loss of her virginity as mentioned above, and the other happened after she began working in the world’s oldest profession, during a scheduled session).  She has been what she calls  "hoeing"  for just under 1 1/2 years and prefers prostitution to stripping because, among other things, she can take the time to see someone as a human being who might share some of your interests.  That vs. stripping being all about the money, with no real ‘connection’ as she just went through the motions each night.

Surely a significant factor in the woman’s youth was her having developed a prominent bosom by age eleven  toward what is now a D-cup  on a sub-5-foot frame complete with a 24-inch waist.   By age thirteen, she had males aged 15 to 20 trying to talk with her.  She soon came to understand that not all men are good men.

She tells of having had a guy she adored during part of her time as a prostitute and of having lost him.  She claims that should she ever get him back as her boyfriend, she would leave prostitution and start a normal life with him in a heartbeat.  With the exception of him, the young working girl’s past romances tended to be with males who were needy, controlling or possessive.

Most of her closest friends know of her life in prostitution and she tells of having lost some old friends as a result of same.  The now-20yo has been arrested for prostitution once and in the process she spent a day in jail.

The articulate woman lists reading, writing and a love for art and poetry among her likes.  It is quite a relief to observe one of today’s young adults capable of presenting herself so well in the arena of prostitution.  If a man wants to make her happy, a gift of a book, poetry, or something related to music or art will suffice.

Though I must add that where her words and seeming internet persona are great, the photos she uses leave plenty to be desired in terms of mere photo quality.  (most are taken with a cell phone and are just casual shots not very well posed.)  With that said, she has a standard of not showing any nudity in her ad photos for not wanting others to "see her ass, titties, and pussy just by looking her up".

 The twenty-year-old recognizes in herself the sense that she sounds bitchy and has been trying to alter that for years now.   She is also trying to change her reluctance to trust and help others since her family always broke promises made to her and since nobody really took care of her to the extent most of us have experienced.  She tells of having had to take care of her

self since she was fifteen.

Her self-critique continued with mention of her not being able to stand a hair out of place or any imperfections in terms of clothes, hair, make-up, and scent.  Sounds as if she needs to be done-up any time she goes out because you never know who’s looking.

With her last boyfriend, she liked to play Scrabble and Chess all night. 

 In reference to her sense of the online prostitution ads on Backpage.com, she felt like she was a hidden gem among them.

She confides of having an anger problem and of being a terrible driver who has been trying to drive better, but who is just horrible.  Her family was too poor to pay for standard driver training courses for her.

 Scholastically she aspires to study psychology and with a special interest in criminal psychology.

The foxy miss dislikes nightclubs given her knack for either getting in a fight with someone, being molested on the dance floor, or having a guy cuss her out.

 She dreams of marrying a great guy, having a couple of kids and perhaps owning a publishing company one day.

The spirit suggested by her words hints that she could get there, for this woman articulates herself much more effectively than does the more typical prostitute in early adulthood.  You’ll be happy to know that she is quite strict where it concerns sexual safety and that she’s perfectly content in that role.  Significantly, her rates undercut the local market a good deal, and no matter where you look in this world it seems the allure of an ample bosom on a petite frame will always know unending attention.