18yo now a mom & more re: girl from the last entry

To begin, the young 18yo working girl gave birth to a baby girl just a few days after her due date, and there are multiple photos of the healthy baby online.

The mom e-mailed me a couple of weeks after giving birth, and was clearly trying to woo me into spending some more quality time with (mom, of course). I’m not too familiar with how soon after giving birth a woman typically wants to, or should be having sex, but it sure seemed too soon for me. Perhaps when you’re just 18 yourself you might bounce-back more quickly than does a woman later on in life, but I just don’t know.

It appears that the "baby daddy" has reappeared on the local scene after having lived halfway across the country, but I don’t know if that is a long-term thing or whether his was just a timely visit.

At any rate, no doubt mom is tackling additional expenses for various reasons and was none too reserved in attempting to re-open doors that were there prior to delivery. I’m not at all averse to seeing her again, but I am inclined to wait at least until she might have healed sufficiently from giving birth.

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Now onto additional info about the OD woman from my last entry:

Absolutely consuming me this week is the new understanding that her breasts are a generous 34dd. I had previously understood that her breasts were full and impressive, but the most telling photo I saw was of a buxom beauty whose black dress tempted the eye while hinting at their residents and then allowing one’s gaze to escape back to her beautiful face.

Not long after I managed to draw specific details relating to "34dd" from her, I decided to Google just that, and one particular teenage tennis player caused me to recalibrate my sense of this woman’s figure. (the teen tennis player underwent breast reduction surgery so that she could play without hinderance, but said tennis player was quite the spectacle prior to the surgery)

It has been so unique and interesting to assess so many admirable traits in this diarist I first discovered more than three years ago before now deducing that her full bosom in some ways dwarfs the many other attention-grabbers about her. Picture a truly attractive and vibrant face on a long and lean woman who has aspirations for law school and toward the political arena. You just don’t get that combination very often and only now do I complicate matters with the new and bigger understanding of her bustline.

She dates from the A-list in terms of the appearances of men she has known and I suspect that some of the guys would make many OD women swoon. The woman is very conscientious of her "number", which is presently "six" (men with whom she’s had intercourse), and she prefers to invite some of them back to her court rather than increase membership in their exclusive club.

As stated previously this woman survived a childhood during which she was surrounded by a considerably abusive father and an alcoholic mother. I’ve been doing what I can to make it clear to her that she needs counseling, and she even made a brave attempt to enlist such services at her university, only to be placed on a "waiting list".

Now my mind is challenged by the many other hurdles so often known to the girls and women all around us whose breasts are far too significant to their everyday images. The woman whose enhanced friendship has been so prominent to me of late is in ways rowing a rubber raft amid cross-currents representing her mother’s alcoholism, her father’s (non-sexual) abuses, the male attention brought by her improbable beauty and by those big, bountiful breasts.

To her credit she at least has a well-developed mind and lots of confidence and determination about her career path and goals, but I still think she’s going to have to get her inner psyche in better order before she can inherit the dream life that some of us might project for her.

In the near term, the woman is going to be in the sights of those males who are entirely driven by giant, improbable breasts on a relatively narrow, feminine frame. There are just too many social cross-currents active in her immediate and long-term prognosis in order for such a person to be mostly comfortable now, even with the social advantages that so many of the rest of us may envy.

I am intrigued…

 

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February 15, 2010

I am glad both mum and bub are fine. Recovery is an each-to-their-own thing but I took about 6 weeks until I felt comfortable (I had a caesar though). Us decent looking, full-breasted lawyer types aren’t as rare as you think … jk 😉

February 15, 2010

hahaha, i don’t have to google that reference. Ally Sheedy in the breakfast club! a total classic.

February 15, 2010

idk why that posted twice… anyway, this entry kind of makes me want to post a picture with my boobs visible. I’ve been keeping them in hiding. because they are large and in charge. lol. I probably won’t because I’m not that hard up for attention.

I find it sad that you’re so interested in the size of her breasts and how she looks. Thats probably half the reason she needs counseling…men more interested in her body and looks than her.

February 16, 2010

My midwife told me to resume relations whenever I felt like it. i typically feel up to returning to sexual activities a couple weeks after birth. in a normal uncomplicated vaginal birth (no episiotomy, tears or stitches) you can feel “normal” pretty quickly, once the post baby bleeding slows/stops.

Yes, having sex with her when she is ready to birth is pretty exciting, but to pay her for a pop so soon after birth! Ew! It makes you wonder if her only interest in you is money? Scandal!

Glad she’s doing well!

February 16, 2010

I’m a 36D and as “big boobs” in the media goes, I don’t think D’s are even that big. The popular picture is for like E and up.

February 17, 2010

ryn: exactly, a black and white rule of a woman being fair game once she’s turned 18 and off limits until then should be fair enough. it’s much more harmful for young girls who look overage and might get taken advantage of because of looking older, than girls who are of mature age although they might not look it! but we can’t expect the govt to NOT make stupid laws though… grr.

February 18, 2010

ryn: that I shall. thanks 🙂

February 18, 2010

sounds like an interesting girl

February 18, 2010

ryn: go for it, I applauded myself when I thought of it. haha

February 18, 2010

i still love the way you write

February 19, 2010

RYN: *glares* Don’t be looking at my baby sister!!! :p

February 21, 2010

ryn: They try to makes excuses by discussing the different “levels”, or pricepoints, of prostitution and their client base, but yes, extensively glamormized. The original ‘Secrets Confessions of a London Prostitute’ (or whatever it was called) was written by the anonymous blogger-turned-published-author Belle DuJour, who fell into escorting whilst working her way through university.