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wedding planning is going ok. i think?
but Dad is in charge of most of it all.
all i have to really sort out is my outfits, the wedding cake, henna/hair/makeup….and i think that’s it. we even have a song picked for our first dance…
so i have been looking at all these things.
for example…for the wedding itself and wedding reception….i can just wear the dupatta differently for each…
i love the first pic so much. if the work was just gold. and the back was just red (no colours) and maybe some orange…
like the second pic…i also quite like the fact that the blouse is heavy, and the skirt is printed and lighter in work…
i love love love the skirt in the 3rd pic….the printing is stunning, although the colours are all wrong…maybe i could have something like this for another event…maybe the engagement?
i love the way this girl is wearing hers…..it is tidy, out of the way, but classy and looks comfortable.
this would be the most ideal henna. it is so beautiful. i love the groom on the horse, and the old indian painting woman. and that it ends with a Ganesh at the top. only i think i would like mine to be up to mid-forearm whereas this sort of ends just above wrist…i really like the back of the hands picture though. the length is quite ideal, and it’s not too heavy…
and finally….in terms of cakes..i have been talking with SN about it all. hopefully she will come up with a picture draft of what it might look like…the first cake’s patterns are amazing…something like that around the sides would be lovely, but with an offwhite/gold base with red/orange and gold piping..
everyone seems to be in agreement that the gold and orange cake is stunning…it is definitely unique, but im not sure it’s spectacular enough for me…
with the tiers being separated by multicoloured jaipur elephants 🙂
the tiers will be separated with many miniature jaipur elephants such as these…with a couple joining trunks on top (instead of a bride and groom), hopefully with a small red heart in the middle (if it doesn’t look too cheesy)- awwwwwwwwww!
i am not entirely sure why, but i am so nervous about calling someone about hair/makeup/henna…i think it might be because i dont really know what will look good on me, and i think other people have a different opinion on what looks good on me than i do…
so for example, at my brother’s wedding, everyone thinks i look SO AMAZINGBEAUTIFULLOVELY…but i kinda thought i looked…ok…
my hair was so wrong…SO wrong, but everyone kept raving about how it looked good…i think maybe people aren’t used to me putting on a lot of makeup/effort in my appearance, so when a little goes on, it goes a long way. i think also people don’t know me as well as they think they do. so im just worried. also, if it goes wrong, it goes WRONNNNGGGG. and it is so important i look good. i dunno..i have to do some research and ask a lot of questions about it all i guess.