Miserable

That’s what I am today. Miserable. I don’t like being crabby but today I just woke up that way. I’m due to start my period next week. I’m sure it’s PMS but still.

Hubby irritated me today. He’s a great man. Really but….. everyone has a but right…..well….I was pissed off because there are 3 grown people living in this house and none of them seem to realize that when the sink is full of dirty dishes that generally means they need to be washed. I work just as much as the other two do. I do my share of shit around here.

I said to him….I think people think these dishes are going to be miraculously washed by themselves. His reply….I don’t do dishes…I never have. I said well it wouldn’t hurt you to start. It just pisses me off because he has this fucking arrogant attitude that dishes are womens work. Oh fuck no! You eat off of those plates, you dirtied that cup…fuckin WASH IT!

He seems to think that because he stated years ago…"I don’t do dishes" that it’s his ticket to get out of them. Not anymore. I’m tired of being the only one in this house to do them.

My daughter…she’s another story. She will do the same thing. I don’t know how many times I’ve said to her. If you see dishes in the sink wash them. I will have just finished washing the entire sink full of dishes. Dried them and put them away. She will come home from work, cook herself something and then throw the dishes in the sink and plop down on the couch for the rest of the night. When I tell her to do the dishes she bitches…Why do you tell me when I just sit down. then the same ole song and dance occurs…."If you would just do them I wouldn’t have to tell you do to them" I’m tired of telling you. I shouldn’t HAVE to tell you.

Gah, what a horrible entry completely comprised of a major rant. Aren’t you glad you don’t live with me?

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knackarsch

July 6, 2006

Oh man. I’m afraid I’m guilty of being your daughter. I irritate my mother just that bad, and by the time we’re done fighting about it, the dishes/vaccuming etc could have been done. I’m going to go do the dishes now. *grumps*

twistedbeauty

my boyfriend will only ever do a single dish if he needs one! & he never, ever puts his dishes in the sink either, always leaves them at the computer desk or on the floor. it’s horrible.

When I was a teenager, my mother would yell at me for the exact same thing. Now, I know there is nothing more irritating than a sink full of dirty dishes.

MrsAmyB

Dishes are a serious pet peeve of mine too!

My boyfriend never does dishes.. although he does a lot of things I won’t do, like clean the toilet! I used to be your daughter. I still am quite lazy, but I will do the dishes if they start piling up. I want a dishwasher, haha.

~*whenwedance*~

Good grief – I don’t think you’re asking too much! lol I can safely say that if dh said that, I’d eat off paper plates until he got the message. ‘course, he has a pretty low threshold for kitchen messes. I’m lucky on that part. Good luck training them. I think I got so lucky because he came pre-trained.

crystal clear

im a BITCH when it comes to the house..when my son lived at home..i would bitch at him about cleaning up after himself..i hate cleaning up after anyone..no one cleans up after me..soo…we have every right to expect that..soo i completely understand…im on my 5 yr old to clean up after herself..my husband would never get away w/ saying he doesnt do dishes..lol id b throwing them at him haha

Stardom

just stop washing them too. When they start complaining about theres no clean dishes then eventually someone will wash them..and stand your ground! When momma aint happy no one is…its the truth!!!

Michiganbaby

July 8, 2006

I get annoyed when i am the only one putting them in the dishwasher, now i know why my mom always yelled at us to just put them in there. haha

Yeah mine does absolutely nothing inside the house, except for his own bonus room and that only happens when he sees the dishes walking out themselves. Grrr. Men. Sorry you are so miserable. I understand completely. I had my bout with PMS this week and wanted to hurt people…badly. RYN: Thanks! I can’t wear long skirts either. I just look like a tent. Blah

stricker lurvvv

i just wanted to say that you are a true inspiration to me. i’m almost 16 and i weigh around 200 lbs although i don’t look that fat. i would really like to weigh around 160, i’m pretty sure that i would be satisfied if i could do that. i’m definitely adding you to my favorites and i was just wondering if i could see your before and afters! : ]

buttermoon

July 9, 2006

Thanks for your notes! I plan to be back on track soon. I’m actually not messing up that much this weekend. I just feel like sometimes I get too high strung about things and then i sabotage myself. I’m trying to relax. Thanks for saying I’m an inspiration. If only you knew you how much of an inspiration YOU are.

RYN: I friggin dare you to leave that note in her diary! Pleaasseee? For meee?! lol I saw that she wanted Buttermoons IM too. Did she think she would be able to make her feel better? She doesn’t seem to have that knack. I will try to post the pants in a new entry. Maybe. They look a little bit old woman in the pic. Hopefully they will be perfect though *crosses fingers*