i don’t know what’s happening…

i don’t know what’s happening in my relationship. i’ve been working really hard at work and i’m really tired every night. he doesn’t seem to understand this. he wants to go out and do things and spend money like crazy. but he soesn’t seem to understand that we don’t have the money to do all this! he’s been really pissy with me all week about it. we’ve hardly said two words to each other this week. i don’t know what to do anymore. i really wish i had some friends or family close by to turn to, but my closest family is in cleveland… 3 hours away. i have no one to turn to. i’m starting to question if this is going to work out. i moved up here to start a life together. he just seems to be thinking about himself. it’s always whate HE wants to do. i want to save money for a wedding. he wants to buy a $2000 bicycle?!? i want to spend a romantic evening at home in each other’s arms. he wants to drive an hour away to a wal mart and buy vacuum bags. oh, and one of his high school friends just moved back to the area. SHE wants him to take her around the area tomorrow to do her running around. i don’t think that is a good idea. but i’m not saying anything about it. but whenever i want to go out with my female friends he throws a fit about it and pouts around for a day or two. it’s like he can do no wrong and everything i do is! i’m tired of being the bad one here.