I did it…

I did send him a little note. And I actually got a response! A pleasant one! He said he appreciated the thought, and hoped I was doing well.

I’m shocked…

Our breakup wasn’t a bad one persay. It was just messy I guess. We struggled last year because of my job. I came home to be with him in October. In January he said he definitely wanted to work on things with me. One night in February we had dinner together. And I hadn’t heard from him since.

And that has got to be the cruelest, most heartbreaking way to "let someone know" you don’t want to be with them.

It really rocked my world for a bit. I didn’t know whether to scratch my watch or wind my butt! I just didn’t know what was going on, and my mind tends to wander when that happens. All the bad thoughts get in. I was so stressed out over everything.

But it’s almost 3 months later, and I’m doing much better! I miss him, but i can never be with him again. And I know that and am ok with it.

And now you know that story… if you already didn’t!

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May 10, 2007

anyone who just walks away without a word doesn’t deserve to be with you. Unfortunatly I say this from bitter experiance because ive done before what he did. I still say you shouldnt have messaged him. But then it aint my life, and I dont take my own advice anyway!! have a good day. Mylo

just be careful…if your over him…don’t put urself in a place of vurnerablity…guard ur heart this time…if he has taken off once on u…he is capable of doing it again unless u two can talk about it…if that is…u want another relationship with him… đŸ™‚

May 11, 2007

Wow That was shady.I like ya quote from Steel Magnolias~whether to scratch my watch or wind my butt!I wish ya the best just know to protect yaself hun.It is his loss.He doesn’t know what he has lost.One day he’ll realize it.Big Hugs~Joan

May 11, 2007

I meant to thank ya for the vote too! Tahnks a bunch i;ll letcha know if i win.Hugs~Joan