November 20, 2005

Stalker part deux

Yeah, the stalker again.

Yesterday Andy and I were watching football out in Oak Park as usual (we go out there cuz I live to close to stalker for his taste) and guess who showed up at the beginning of the second quater? Yup, the stalker.

He ran outside to talk to her. They argued and a few times she started to come into the bar where I was. Now, this is not a problem for me as I have proof she was stalking me and anything she does involves that.

Ok, so she and Andy broke up over 2 months ago, he has told me he is becomming afraid, mostly because of the having to change his locks thing because she kept going into his apt. and we have been very careful to go places she is not likely to be. He has been walking to the bar so that his truck is at home in case she shows up etc.

Anyway, she finally gets into the bar and comes near me, I of course have been watching her walk up, this girl aint stupid about being jumped LOL. She started to act like she is gonna walk past me and then figures out I see her. She sits down on a stool across from me and says ‘Star’ so I said "Delia". She asked me if I picked him up at home. I am thinking, that falls under nunnya but I answer her anyway. I tell her yes, knowing that is not strictly true as I picked him up halfway to the bar. I asked her what she was doing there, she dint answer, just said "We have been intimate, did he tell you that?" I calmly told her that was none of my business, as it is not. He and I are not a couple yet, and we are not sleeping together yet so I have no reason to ask him about it and he surely would not volunteer that info. Meanwhile he starts walking back to the table and she starts shouting at him "Why did you lie about that!?!?!?" (meaning walking to the bar) like it is any of her business and Andy would lie (trust me, this is the most honest man you will EVER meet, if he lied it was to protect her from herself). So then she looks and points at me, and shouts at him "Is that what you want? Do you really want that?" so of course Andy says yes, I do want that (I am a bit miffed at being referred to as that, but hey you don’t necessarily think in the heat of battle)

Anyway, he gets her back outside, they spend another 15 minutes talking , shouting, fighting (she had already left once to come back by this time) and then he comes in, throws $ for the bill on the table, and says "I’m really sorry, I am going to have to diffuse the situation, I have to go." and runs out.

k….I know you are all saying what I was thinking at the time. Why leave with her? What about Star? Is this guy really honest if he left with this woman, are you sure Star that he is not cheating on her with you?

Needless to say I am a lil upset with Andy and wondering just exactly which part upsets me so much. I CAN say if his daughters had thrown a fit like that over something they wanted, he surely would not have given them whatever it was. Maybe it was the way he acted like he and I were doing something wrong. Of course we weren’t, and even if we had been screwing on top of the bar we STILL wouldn’t have been doing anything wrong as we are both single.

Anyway, I know he dint stay with her too long cuz less than 30 minutes later she was calling my cell ( I got the hell outta Dodge after he left as I did not want her to follow me home and find out where I live like last time when she broke car windows, and that time she had denials from both of us that we were together etc.) No telling what she would do after finding us together. She has been calling it all night and all day. Aint caller ID grand? I have no desire to talk to her, I have tried to help her out, told her WHY her relationship is ending and how to stop it. She doesn’t listen. Can you say psychotic?

Maybe Mom can help me sort out why I am so mad at him. Prolly something stupid like I was hoping he and I would get together again and was let down when I was left sitting there looking stupid.