My process
People leave our lives. All the time. Not necessarily that they die, but people drift away from each other; they argue and remain proud; circumstances tear them apart. There are so many reasons, and so many ways.
So why is it that death is the ultimate finality?
Bonds are always being created between people. Be they strong, weak or otherwise, a bond is a bond. So how is it that any such bond can be broken or torn apart, but no such mourning is undertaken as it is with death?
Processes. We all go through them. For any number of reasons. You and I may not go through the exact same process, but we go through our own process in our own way…according to our own personal laws. So when I neglect to deal, is this my process, or is this bypassing my process and fooling myself into believing I’ve been through the whole process, and have dealt?
Wow..Thanks for your note. I’m sorry about your gran. Losing someone is always hard. “As time goes by I know the weight gets lighter but i miss you more every single day. I’m having trouble breathing without you here.” ~Missing September ~rory
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Revise that Thanks for all your NOTES. They mean a lot. Processes. Everyone goes through them. When death severs a bond its so much harder because there is a finality to it. You know you will never get another chance. Thats why its so hard. “If I sleep long enough next to an 8 by 10 frame I’ll wake up next to something meaningful, like a double-edged star, a skull.” ~Miss Sept ~rory
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everyone has their own way of dealing with thigs, everyone has their own little ways of handling whatever life gives us. the trick is to handle it the best way we know how…. i hope everything is cool with you. 😉
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