Family Drama

Now that I’m married, I am hearing about all the family drama.  WAIT… I was hearing about it before we got married.  LOL  I guess not much has changed at all.  So here’s what is going on NOW…

Shawn just called me while I was walking home from the lightrail tonight.  She asked me to look online to see if I could find a couple of airline tickets for Madison and Devon so that she can get her kids back.  The two oldest are out here in California because Mary begged and asked and begged and asked some more to have them come out here to stay for a few weeks after our wedding.  Finally after telling her no a bazillion times, Shawn gave in under the terms that the kids would be brought back by August 3rd.  They would not be put on a plane to be brought back.

Well… here it is, August 2nd and nobody is on there way with the kids back to Nebraska.  Zane supposedly promised that if the kids came out here that he would bring them back if Desi couldn’t.  Desi is the one that brought the kids out here when she and Clint drove back from the wedding in July.  Desi can’t take the kids back though because she no longer has the car that she had when she went to Nebraska, and the car that she has now won’t make it.  Zane is saying that he can’t take the kids because he doesn’t have any money and blah blah blah.  WTF!  He is the one the PROMISED that he would make sure the kids would be brought back, and here he is saying that he isn’t even going back to Nebraska until spring!

Shawn is pissed!  Seth evidently got into a huge fight with Mary right before I called Shawn back.  I had to tell her that I wasn’t able to find any flights for the kids to Omaha.  She is probably going to have to get them a flight from Oakland to Kansas City due to the fact that airlines won’t take minors unless it is on a direct flight.  There aren’t any direct flights that go to Omaha.

We also talked about how nobody had any money when they all came out to Nebraska for the wedding.  In a way I felt bad because the wedding was ours and we were the ones that decided to have it in Nebraska.  BUT at the same time we made sure to give everyone more than enough time to plan accordingly if they wre going to go.  Shawn and Seth ended up paying for so much stuff that they should not have been responsible for.  They paid for the rehearsal dinner that Mary said she was going to pay for (not sure if they got paid back… probably not).  They also had to pay for Zane’s tux!  And I know that they haven’t gotten paid back for that and probably won’t!

If I had money, I would be more than happy to help Shawn and Seth out.  Maybe towards the end of the month we can send them a "thank you" for all that they did.  But I refuse to give Jacob’s mom or brother anymore money.  They are so fucking irresponsible, and I’m not going to be the one to bail them out all the time.  Mary is more than capable of going back to work full-time now.  Hannah is well and good again.  And ZANE should be getting off his ass and finding a real job.  Not just working under the table when he can find it.

I know that you are probably thinking I should be saying the same thing for Jacob.  Well…  I basically have said the same thing for him.  LOL  But I can honestly say that Jacob is making an effort to find a real job.  In fact he has an interview tomorrow (keep your fingers crossed).  Not to mention that althought Jacob and I are tight on money, we aren’t the ones that aren’t taken care of right now.  We have enough to live off of and then some.  AND we aren’t going around looking for a hand out every chance we get.

*sigh*

And why oh why does my husband still insist on being so fucking jealous???  OMG!!!  I’m going to clock him if he doesn’t fucking knock it off!  That shit is getting so old!  You would think that now that we are married, he would be a little bit more at ease with our relationship.  Well… guess again!  He’s coming home tonight… we are going to be sitting down and having a nice long talk.  Because I’m not going to be stressed out over stupid shit all the fucking time!  Okay… I’m done ranting now.

Laters,
JamieLynn =)