Changing it up…

Ive been having the same arguement with my boyfriend for quite some time now. Its the whole "come home after work every night not drunk, drinking is for after you have taken care of business, and spent time with your family, you need to get your priorities straight" arguement. How can i change it up to make it seem like im not bitching about the same thing, without going off topic?

Im going to give a try one more time i think, and then i dont know what else i can do. I have tried and tried to make it work with me and him. I cant keep giving this relationship my everything when he is not even giving 50% so i can give the other 50%. It just doesnt work that way. Does anyone have any suggestions on how i can get my point across without really hurting his feelings, but get the point through his head? If so, please help.