‘relationships’
RELATIONSHIPS
1.) What is your name? Lauren
Section 1-Crush Info
2.) Who was your first crush? hmmm Paul Sayer
3.) What made you like them? I was about 6 and he was the most popular boy in school and I was the most popular girl in school (hah)
4.) Did you ever ask them out? no but he asked me out many times through primary school
5.) Did you tell them that you liked them? I’m sure all my friends did “lauren luuuuuuuuuurves you, paul!! *giggle*”
6.) Did they like you back? well we went out but whether either of us liked the other at all is highly debatable
7.) What was their age? 6ish
8.) Was it a male or a female? male
9.) Did you ever go out of your way to try to impress them? doubt it lol
10.) How did they react? he asked me out
11.) Did you ever write them a love letter? oh im sure i did…i have a love letter from my ex ollie from when we were 9 or 10 and i’d love to find one from Paul…I wonder if he has one from me still
12.) Do you still have contact with that person today? no he’s…just no
13.) If they didn’t know you had a crush on them back then, would you tell them now? hah probably that would be pretty funny to remember all our old days together
14.) Do you still have a crush on that person? no absolutely not
Section 2-Bad Love Relationships
15.) Who is your worst ex? Olliem
16.) What went wrong in your relationship? well…he was born…oh wait that’s not in our relationship. basically he used me then he lied saying he was still a virgin when we started seeing each other again, i slept with him and then I found out he’d been seeing another girl and had slept with her before me and then lied about it
17.) Would you ever consider going back to that person? i honestly think i would have to kill myself
18.) Why or why not? because i think he’s secretly gay (always have..at least bisexual) and he’s an attention seeking twat who is wasting his life (he’s actually quite intelligent but getting into drink far too much and quit education)
19.) Were you in love with them? i was for about 2 years before we got together…well…i had one HELL of a crush on him anyway…could be interpreted and the beginnings of loving him.
20.) If you were, was the love one sided or did they love you back? well we both went bright red whenever we had to speak (work related things) and everyone teased us…we had MASSIVE crushes on eachother…you know the type you have when you’re 12…but i was 16 and he was 17
21.) Describe your relationship in 1 sentence: he used me and i let him
22.) Do you miss that person? i don’t miss him…i worry about him a hell of a lot though
23.) Do you still think about them? yes…I don’t want him to fuck up his life because he is a good guy really. oh and i think about him when he tells me he still loves me over MSN drunk
24.) Dream about them? no
25.) Long for them? why would you ask that in the ‘bad relationships’ section? NO
26.) Are you 2 still friends? no but we don’t ignore eachother because we have mutual friends and i dont want to make it awkward although i’m sure he’d answer yes to this. he didn’t quite understand “we are NOT friends. I will NEVER be your friend. i’m just not going to ignore you when ashley and emily are around.”
27.) Do you ever see yourself getting back together with that person? hah don’t think so some how
28.) Name one thing about that person that absolutely disgusted you: he didn’t disgust me
29.) If you could go back and change one thing about your relationship with that person, what would it be? i’d just like him to realise i have feelings
30.) Would you like to try again? no thanks
31.) Why or why not? it’s ollie
32.) Do you forgive this person? yeah i do…and i’d help him if he wasnt STILL being a wanker whenever we talk
Section 3- Love Life
( if you are not in a relationship, you can either use one of your most memorable relationships to answer the questions, or disregard this section entirely )
33.) Do you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend or both? yuhuh
33.) Where did you meet? over OpenDiary.com
34.) How long have you been together? 9 months ish
35.) Who asked who out? erm…difficult question. we just kind of decided
36.) What is their name? Jordan
37.) What is their age? too old for me 😛 23
38.) What is your age? 19
39.) Who had a crush on who first? me! i thought he was GORGEOUS. but engaged. oops.
40.) How did you find out that this person liked you, or how did they find out that you liked them? erm…i don’t remember. we were just talking over MSN…
41.) Did you 2 date before you became a couple? we didn’t even meet before we became a couple
42.) Describe your first date with this person: perfect. all day spent together just walking around a park and getting some food and…talking and cuddling and kissing and…i fell in love.
43.) Was the date fun? lots
44.) What attracted you to this person? he’s so kind and polite and sweet and adorable
45.) What is their best quality? he will do anything for anyone
46.) Worst quality? his geekiness
47.) How do you feel about your relationship? i wouldn’t change a thing
48.) Do you remember your first kiss with this person? yes…sheltering under a tree from the rain. it was sickeningly romantic and absolutely perfect.
49.) How was it? he’s yet to beat it, i think.
50.) Were you still fantasizing about your first kiss a week after it happened?it’s now 9 months after
51.) Name something that makes this person awesome: how gentle he is
52.) What do you believe is the strongest part of your relationship? *blushes* our mutual geekiness?
53.) Weakest? erm…i guess we squabble quite a bit (more lately) but we always get over it so i wouldn’t say it’s a weak bit because we all need to argue
54.) Can you relate to this person on an emotional level? yes surprisingly
55.) Were you sexually attracted to this person the first time you laid eyes on each other? yes absolutely
56.) How many hours a week do you spend talking to your mate? god knows but not enough
57.) Spending time with your mate? whenever we get a chance…it’s the only time you make a kind of long distance relationship work. as he sayd “more than most normal couples do”
58.) Name something that you love about this person. the little beauty spots underneath one of his eyes
59.) How long have you 2 been together? 9 months ish (have i already answered this?)
60.) Do you remember the exact date on which you 2 became official? i do.
61.) Do you remember the exact date of your first kiss? no…but i’m sure he does
62.) Your first date? same as above…same day
63.) When was the last time you saw them? yesterday morning when he left for work
64.) Have you told them you loved them yet? oh only a couple of times (:P)
65.) Do you remember the exact date of the first time they told you they loved you? no…
66.) Are you in love with this person? oh a little i think (:P)<BR>
67.) In the event that you 2 breakup…how would you go about dealing with the loss? i don’t think i would deal with the loss at all
68.) Can you see love beyond this person? no
69.) Could you see yourself being with this person forever? absolutely.
70.) Why or why not? he’s perfect for me (this is getting a little sickly eh?)
71.) Describe this person in one sentence: A very strong and determined but loving and caring person who will go out of his way to help anyone.
72.) Describe how you feel about this person in 1 sentence. I love him.
73.) Describe your relationship in one word: sickly
74.) Is this the most meaningful relationship you have ever been in? i think so… *smiles to self* (told you…sickly)
75.) How often do you 2 fight? we squabble. we fight every now and again
76.) When was the last time you 2 fought? saturday night
77.) What was the fight over? let’s not bring that up again, eh?
78.) When you 2 get into a fight, how do you resolve the argument? let the argument fizzle out a bit…both go quiet then one puts their hand on the others arm or hip or hand and we kiss and make up
79.) Have you ever cried over this person? yes
80.) Why? coz he stresses me out
81.) Has this person ever cried for you? yes…
82.) Why? *shrugs slightly*
83.) Have you 2 ever cried together? *nods slightly*
84.) Over what? couple of things
85.) Do you cry in front of them? hah…i think half the world heard my sobs saturday night *blushes*
87.) Do you feel that this person loves you as much as you love them? yes. absolutely.
88.) Do you think they are your soulmate? yes.
89.) Do you feel that your relationship will last? yes.
90.) Would you rather make love, have sex, or fuck this person? with us it’s either making love or fucking. it’s never just ‘having sex’
91.) Have you already made love to them? *blushes* mmhmm…this is getting a bit personal
92.) If you have been intimate with this person, what was your reasoning for doing so? i love him…
93.) how far have you gone with this person? ssshhh *goes red*
Section 3 – Your Opinions And Thoughts On Love
94.) Do you believe in soulmates? erm…yes ish
95.) Do you believe that you have already found your soulmate? yes
96.) If no, do you believe that there is one person out there that was put on this earth specifically for you, and you for them?
97.) How important is love in the presence of a relationship which is sexually intimate? i don’t think it’s important. respect is but i don’t think you have to love everyone you sleep with
98.) Would you ever have sex with a person before you fell in love with them? Why or why not? yeah
99.) Do you believe in forever? yes
100.) What is the longest relationship that you have ever been involved in? erm well i was with charlie for the majority of the time from age 12/13 to 16/17
101.) Do you believe that gay/lesbian marriage should be legal? mmhmm
102.) Why or why not? there’s no reason for it not to be. there’s no difference between the feelings or everyday life in a gay relationship and a straight one so why should there be legal differences?
103.) What is your sexual orientation? bisexual
104.) Should gay couples be able to adopt? Why not? what do you mean why not?? I haven’t said no! yes! they should be able to for the same reasons as above.
105.) Have you ever passionately kissed someone of the same sex? yes
106.) Did you feel odd doing it? you’d bloody well hope not for a bi girl
107.) Do you want to get married? well yes…to Jordan but it wouldn’t bother me not getting married.
108.) In the event that you fall in love in high school, would you ever marry upon graduation? Why or why not? well that didn’t happen and no i wouldnt anyway because you need to give it time to last whilst you’re changing personally
109.) Do you believe that -open- relationships are OK? well yeah if you’re both comfortable with it and jealousy doesnt come into play but i personally don’t want anyone else other than my little Jord.
well that was sickly.