The Incident Report

If you’d like to read about he Dru Sjodin case this is the link to the articles in the local newspaper

We had two tables open and five people on. These boys think nothing of letting the ashtrays get full so I am the one that ends up emptying them. I like to keep busy because it make the time go faster. While I was emptying ashtrays I noticed that one gal was sitting on a bar chair, which is higher than the chairs that we have at the tables because our table are handicapped accessible. So I offered her a shorter chair and got her one. I noticed that another gal (R) was standing so I asked her if she would like a chair and I told her that I would get her one. She said no that she was fine.

Her friend (C) said “Lucy you are always trying to place people, mellow out!”

What?

Then she said something else that I did not understand with the slur. But I did hear “take a break!”

I told her “I really don’t understand what you are saying to me.”

“You are always too accommodating, too nice, and always doing something for someone. You need to back off!”

And this was not in a nice tone of voice. This was in a bitch, cutting voice.

I told her that it is my job to be accommodating and nice to people. Then I walked away.

Later she came up to the jar bar and told me that she meant it as a compliment but knew that she had offended me.

It certainly did not sound or feel like a compliment to me. I am not offended easily so when I feel offended, I have been offended.

I think that she (C) has a problem with her friend (R) being friends with me. Although I usually get with (C) as well as I get along with anyone else; (R) and I talk more.

(C) Is not one that I would hang out with but I think that it would be fun to hang out with the (R). And (R) and I have talked about hanging out together ~ playing bingo or what not.

Son of a bitch! See what happens to nice people! I don’t get it!