text-ationship
So….today right on schedule (every other day-ish…) I get a text "Hey good looking." This is what followed:
Me: Hey
WM: What u up to?
Me: Running some errands then heading to Buckhead for lunch. U?
WM: Looking for work.
Me: How are you feeling?
WM: Better.
Me: Good! Any good job leads?
WM: Yeah a few.
WM: Want to fool around?
**I didn’t know what to say to that…so I just ignored it.**
WM: Guess not…
Me: Hey sorry. That’s not really me, at least not at this point in my life…perhaps if you had at least pretended a bit and took me out…although I guess it’s cool that ur being up front about it! lol
WM: I had the feeling that u were looking for something long term. I just wanna have fun at this point in my life. I thought you were too from the walmart incident. Don’t get me wrong, I think you are awesome sexy cool.
Me: You do know we are at the same point in our lives…lol. I do want to have fun, but I’d like to do it with one person…I’m not saying I was looking for that in you specifically…just a little less..um…forward…I guess. I tend to have way more "fun" when there’s an emotional connection & trust, but that’s the point of life I’m in. Hooking up for the sake of hooking up gets old. And thank you…I can be super sexy. After a month and a half of texting and several requests for pics I figured that’s what you were looking for…I had fun seeing when u would bring it up.
WM: You aren’t just anybody sugar. That’s why I asked.
WM: And I’m looking for "one person" too btw
Me: most people are in their own way
WM: What are you doing tomorrow?
Me: Tomorrow… VBS meeting, lunch with a friend and maybe the pool.
WM: Too bad. Was hoping to see u.
Me: If you really do want to hang out we can see about next week…
WM: 🙂
So funny!! I don’t want to date this guy, but I’m super entertained. Is he for real?
Hahaha! Men are soooo entertaining nowadays. 😀 I tend to prefer when a guy is upfront like him… then I don’t have to beat around the bush when I tell him to **** off.
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He may be a smooth talker just telling you what you want to hear for now.. You’ll know more bout him if the relationship goes beyond a textationship ;^)
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Yes, he is for real. It seems like he does like you a lot, yet wasn’t sure if you were someone to toy with (have fun, short term, walk away type) or looking for long term, more serious stuff. I guess it was a little test, to see where you stood with things. Glad you told him. Now, as you can see from his response, he is suddenly wanting to see you and see where things lead. Very interesting! I’m watching this space….hee heeeeeeee G~
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he wants a booty call.
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he *seems* like he msgs you when he wants to “sext” with you. I had one of those… it’s strange, and so odd when you feel awkward over reading msgs on your own phone! Lol. I’d be direct with him if I were you, if you’re not interested, tell him 😉
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Entertaining booty call seekers can definitely be good for the ego and for providing humor!
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unfortunately, sex is your weapon here. if he was really interested in getting to know, you guys would’ve hung out by now. as it is, he finds you sexy (cause you totally is) and he wants a piece o that, and he’s trying to figure out a way to get it w/out setting you up for a hard fall. i mean, in one exchange he goes from ‘just having fun’ to ‘looking for a rlntshp.’ really?
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did you run away with walmart man?
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