Insight

This is just a rant, so read with that in mind.

It’s so hard to trust guys!  You never know what they have going on "on the side."  I went kayaking with a good friend of mine (Robert), a friend of his (Kyle, a guy that I had never met before) and a couple that I know.  Robert is a proclaimed bachelor.  He says he doesn’t want to be in a relationship because he can’t trust girls and he know what they do when they are out with their friends.  His case:  He and Kyle went out Friday night to a nearby club.  They had some drinks and were checking out some girls.  The girls they ended up chatting with kept talking about their boyfriends, but by the end of the night he was making out with one of them.  She actually texted him on our way to the river saying "my boyfriend gets home today, but I’ll call you later tonight."  So he and Kyle go on and on about how you can’t trust girls.

Then…Roberts starts teasing Kyle about the girl that was hanging all over him, and kissing on him during the night.  (apparently she was a bigger girl, at least in this story).  I stop them at this point.  They had both just been going on and on about how bad girls were, but Kyle has a girlfriend.  And yet he was kissing on this other girl.  His argument…."I was being a good wing man."  I’m sorry, but how does being a good wing man become an excuse for cheating on your girlfriend.  He says he wasn’t cheating.  But he was definitely involved in the kissing…oh no, he says, she was kissing on me….and the difference is????? 

He then starts complaining about his girlfriend and how they never have sex, he has to beg for it before he leaves to work out of town, how she won’t do this or that in the bedroom…  So I ask him, why don’t you just break up with her instead of cheating on her?  The answer, she’s a really good girl and he loves her.  Really???

Kyle concluded the conversation with the statement that he really hopes I never meet his girlfriend.  Good, at least he knows he did something wrong.

This is so irritating.  How can you trust someone when they are just going to go be "wing man" for their single friends and justify what they are doing with another woman.  They might not be sleeping with these women, but they are touching and kissing them with no guilt.  I know several men who do this, some married.

Now…for every jack ass boyfriend I know, I also know a really good guy whom I think would never do that.  But then sometimes even the good ones surprise you…  

*On a side note….WalMart keeps texting me every few days.  Still not sure what’s up.  I keep playing along just to see what happens.