Dry Spell

So I’ve had a very long dry spell.  Not really interested in looking for dates, not going out of my way to be flirty or anything of that nature.  And, the expected results happened…no dates.  But I’m okay with that.  I’ve been working on me and being more involved in church.  I’m still super busy and keeping up with friends. 

Last night was the perfect example of me going out without expectations.  Two girlfriends and I went to see a bluegrass band and ended up meeting a couple of guy friends at a local bar to see a Journey cover band.  It ended up just being me and one of my girl friends.  I went to get a drink at the bar and as soon as I walk away, two guys approach my friend and start chatting her up.  I’m like, really…of course, I leave and she gets the guys…lol.  My luck.  Good for her though!  So I walk back over and chat with them.  One of the guys was leaning up against the bar talking to my friend and one was hanging back a bit, so I tried talking to him.  After a few minutes the guy leaning near my friend asked me to dance…big surprise!  We ended up dancing a few times, small kiss on the dance floor after the songs.  He’s ex-military, great body… :-).  Not sure how old he is.  I know he went into the military when he was 19, and he was there for 13 years.  So at least 32.  When I asked what he did he said he managed people.  He was very vague about it.  My friend was driving, and very sober.  The other guy talked her ear off about all the countries he’s been to and she was super bored so we ended up leaving early.  The guy got my #, gave me his and told me to call him the next day.  He mentioned a movie that he wanted to see.  Interesting.  Not sure I want to date an ex-military guy, but I would love a date!  

I ended up texting him today and we’ve chatted back and fourth a bit.  Hopefully I’ll have some fun updates later!