Work For It

It’s only a fail if you never see it. #winning

Unlike respect, I don’t feel that love is something to be earned. I feel that love is something you give, freely, and you give yourself with it. This is why it’s important to have the self-esteem to feel that you have something worthy to bring to the table, so to speak. And then there’s the question of how do you earn it? I honestly think “how do I earn his love?” is just a rephrasingof “how do I make him love me?” It’s like the saying I wish I could take credit for: “It’s not up to me anymore. If you want me in your life, you’ll find a way to put me there.” How fucked up is it? Don’t beat yourself up, you’re more insightful than most ever will be. But nothing has ever been as hard as love. #loveowowow

I agree with [drilldude].